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1. i’m going to give you some very very hot advice and input, as someone who lives with a very serious (and notoriously nude to treat) mental illness.

   you are toxic, and starting to become abusive.

   you are putting your partner through a totally unnecessary whirlwind, his studies are suffering because of it, and i’m sure his mental health is, too. dealing with a partner who lashes out is exhausting, and not only is it exhausting, it causes you to walk on eggshells when they are around. you become hyper aware of everything you are saying and doing out of fear of setting them off, and that pattern is very damaging.

   if that sounds like a pattern of abuse, it’s because it is. there is no arguing that.

   while i’m glad you are aware of your behavior and you understand why you experience the things you do, the tone of your post is mildly infuriating. you have that “it isn’t me, it’s the illness, i can’t help myself, i need the pills” mentality that completely shifts accountability from you to your illness, and that is really unhealthy.

   your illness is not a separate entity from yourself. it is a part of who you are, and if you are not putting in constant work to effectively live with it, it will eat up everything around you. by your own hand.

   your illness does not give you any kind of pass on how you act around, or react to, the people around you. and while meds help with the chemical side of the equation, the biggest and most important part of this is therapy. i don’t necessarily mean “talk therapy” with a professional (even though it’s not a bad idea), i mean developing coping mechanisms, actively practicing self-soothing techniques, reality tapping, avoiding triggers, learning about cognitive function with anxiety, etc.

   i also recommend removing everything from your life that is known to cause and worsen anxiety. caffeine, alcohol, nicotine, and being sedentary are huge triggers.

   you need to start treating yourself for this condition while you’re waiting for medical intervention in the country you are now in. if you are on edge, do something physical that keeps you out of your boyfriend’s face. walking, cleaning, anything that gets you moving. when you are overwhelmed, do something that winds you down. i don’t know what your lifestyle looks like to tell you what those things are, but soothing yourself when you are overstimulated is vital to correcting this cycle. i recommend reading into what people with autism do to “self-soothe.” it’s helped my son tremendously with his PTSD.

   i live with a particularly nasty case of bipolar 1 disorder, and i could spend hours telling you about all of the relationships i’ve ruined, the chaos i’ve caused, and the overall toxic waste i was until i started being proactive. it took twenty years to get on the right track, but it’s never too late. you just have to realize how much of your behavior is 100% avoidable, and treatable.

   in terms of how you remedy your relationship? you stop leaning on him. you start standing on your own to relieve the pressure you’re dragging him down with, and you put more positive focus on him. stop making your illness a headlining act in this relationship. if you don’t start breathing positivity and feelings of safety and appreciation into your partnership, it will die a long and resentful death.

   i’m going to gently recommend seeing a therapist after you receive your diagnosis, too. your doctors have only been putting a bandaid on your issues by writing you prescriptions and just sending you on your way. if your illness has reached this point, it’s irresponsible not to start seeing a professional. someone who can actually help you, which your partner cannot—and is not obligated to—do.

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2. We are. We’ve been together 9 years. I love the shit out of that man. That was an asshole moment for him. I was angry, he apologized, it never happened again.

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   Hi, my Gf of a year think I cheated on her and has broken up with me and I want to know if there is a chance we could get back together, the story: I met this girl about a year or little more and shes everything I ever wanted and wished for, pretty, intelligent and we share most of our interests including music, goals, hobbies and humor, she has 2 degrees and a masters degree (she has a degree in teaching, a degree in english and a masters in teaching higher education, we are Mexicans living in Mexico btw) I only have 1 degree im a gral practitioner looking to enter a residence, anyway I have an ex (47F) who i hadn’t talked in years (1.5 years maybe 2) and I wondered how she was with the pandemic, even if she was alive, so I sent her a message through IG, and a song about reminiscing old times about a month ago and forgot about it, now my gf teaches in a rural town and stays in the city weekends (friday, saturday and sunday) my ex showed up at my house unnanounced last thursday and we started to chat and catch up (outside my house, I didnt let her in) and 15 minutes in my gf showed up also unnanounced, she got friday off and wanted to surprise me and saw us talking outside, my ex quickly just drove off after introducing her to my gf and my gf just did the same and broke up with me, the next day I went to her home and she thinks I cheated on her with my ex, and to top things up my ex contacted her through IG and showed her the message and song and now she blocked me on everything, I love her deeply and we were serious (thinking of getting married and everything) i feel like thrash because even if i didnt cheat on her i was stupid for even contacting this person and I know how it looks like, what can I do to get her to forgive me and get back, is it even possible? Or likely? I feel too much sadness and desperation TLDR My gf thinks I cheated and broke up with me, what can I Do?

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