You've just found out your entire relationship was a lie. Can you imagine if you had done the same? Kept secret contact with someone else and sent photos? Would you have the integrity to initiate the breakup or would you have used lies and manipulation to keep the relationship going?
Few people see a couple that's been together since high school and thinks “fairytale”. There's usually a lot of growth and change that happens in your teens and twenties and thinking a decision you made at 17 is one that should last a lifetime is probably a bit naive.
I wish you the best whatever you choose, but staying is probably going to shed what little self esteem you have left. Are you financially dependent on him? Is that the hesitation? What else has he been lying about?
“Weird little panties” lmao! ty for this, I am now deceased
You've just found out your entire relationship was a lie. Can you imagine if you had done the same? Kept secret contact with someone else and sent photos? Would you have the integrity to initiate the breakup or would you have used lies and manipulation to keep the relationship going?
Few people see a couple that's been together since high school and thinks “fairytale”. There's usually a lot of growth and change that happens in your teens and twenties and thinking a decision you made at 17 is one that should last a lifetime is probably a bit naive.
I wish you the best whatever you choose, but staying is probably going to shed what little self esteem you have left. Are you financially dependent on him? Is that the hesitation? What else has he been lying about?