Best friend has feelings for you. Fiance found out. They fought.
Best friend can't be around you now because he has to get over you!
Wether that's it, or something totally different, both of these men are supposed to care about you, so id expect one of them to talk to you. I'd have a conversation with your fiance about how this is upsetting you and you want to talk about it.
Honestly, I don't think your mother will ever truly comprehend or believe what she did was wrong.
I could never imagine sacrificing my child's mental health and happiness just to not upset the status quo.
Ultimately, I'm someone who believes you should try to forgive others, because mostly because it's a poison that mainly hurts you. However, forgiving doesn't mean you have to rebuild a relationship with anyone.
While I'm sure the bulk of the pressure to keep this from you came from your mother, Fuck the rest of your family for going along with it.
My best wishes to you, your husband, and your children.
So this 29 yr old MAN, needs your (a student who doesn't work) card..And he knows your financial situation, and not only blames you for his actions, he doesn't want to give you back the money. Honey, what are you doing?? Is this the last man on earth?
If they are gold, have them melted down and cast into another piece of jewelry
My call?
Not really, people often date for awhile before doing things like moving in etc
Maybe in old age when time left is super short people move in faster.
Best friend has feelings for you. Fiance found out. They fought.
Best friend can't be around you now because he has to get over you!
Wether that's it, or something totally different, both of these men are supposed to care about you, so id expect one of them to talk to you. I'd have a conversation with your fiance about how this is upsetting you and you want to talk about it.
Honestly, I don't think your mother will ever truly comprehend or believe what she did was wrong.
I could never imagine sacrificing my child's mental health and happiness just to not upset the status quo.
Ultimately, I'm someone who believes you should try to forgive others, because mostly because it's a poison that mainly hurts you. However, forgiving doesn't mean you have to rebuild a relationship with anyone.
While I'm sure the bulk of the pressure to keep this from you came from your mother, Fuck the rest of your family for going along with it.
My best wishes to you, your husband, and your children.
So this 29 yr old MAN, needs your (a student who doesn't work) card..And he knows your financial situation, and not only blames you for his actions, he doesn't want to give you back the money. Honey, what are you doing?? Is this the last man on earth?