It’ seems he has someone else. You should’ve gone to marriage counseling after that misunderstanding that seemed to be a big deal for him. There’s no communication between you two he was out of love but didn’t show you any sign this is why I think there’s another woman In his life.
Tell him how you feel and if he wants to try counseling before ending it all.
Me and my bf have the same arrangement. I cook and he does the dishes.
When I'm doing a meal that will dirty a lot of dishes, I wash some stuff along when cooking. Used a bowl for butter ? I rincer it right afterwards. Used a glass for startch water ? I rinse it right after.
Cleaning right after you dirty it makes it way easier. And it keeps the space clean for me. And less dishes for bf. I do it wile stuff is cooking. It's a win win all around.
He needs TP for his bunghole.
It’ seems he has someone else. You should’ve gone to marriage counseling after that misunderstanding that seemed to be a big deal for him. There’s no communication between you two he was out of love but didn’t show you any sign this is why I think there’s another woman In his life.
Tell him how you feel and if he wants to try counseling before ending it all.
You are emotionally healthy. He is not.
Run.
Me and my bf have the same arrangement. I cook and he does the dishes.
When I'm doing a meal that will dirty a lot of dishes, I wash some stuff along when cooking. Used a bowl for butter ? I rincer it right afterwards. Used a glass for startch water ? I rinse it right after.
Cleaning right after you dirty it makes it way easier. And it keeps the space clean for me. And less dishes for bf. I do it wile stuff is cooking. It's a win win all around.