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It could be that he knows he’s got you “locked in” or whatever to the relationship so he can finally share his real thought on a subject.
There has been a huge increase in women hating content popping up all over YouTube, TikTok, and Instagram. It’s possible that he got sucked into it and has convinced himself that he believes it. It could be that he’s always thought this way and is just now letting it out, it could be that it’s a cynical attempt to end the relationship.
I don’t think the motive matters here much. You can’t have a healthy long term relationship with someone who views you as property.
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Does he have wind chimes.. there?
Well you'll probably not be retiring until you are 70, so why not!
My best friend had an ex with BPD. When anyone would challenge her in any way she would threaten to harm herself. After they broke up he told me during a previous fight he left the house, and she sent him a suicide note where she clearly scratched out her ex boyfriends name and inserted his… towards the end of the relationship every time she threatened herself he said he would just call the cops to check up on her. Suddenly, she was no longer suicidal.
You do you. You are a valuable person. You have skills and talents. And if medicine is what your heart wants to do, you will do it.
Do not believe anything your parents say any more. You have already realized that they trained you to accept everything from them, even when they are wrong. But now as an adult, you need to seek truth and stop believing any lies or anything based on less than scientific truths.
Your mother may have an ulterior motive when she tells you „her deity said“, because she may simply not want to pay for expensive long-term studies. That’s what people do, they try to manipulate others for their own gain.
Be your own person from now on. Believe in yourself.
get away from eachother.
but you need to pause it for longer than a month to see any possible effects… some women need years! for their hormones to be back on track
He's done coke 4 times in a year? He was withdrawing from cocaine? It sounds like he's also using your ignorance of drugs to manipulate you, just leave the guy
This has to be fake.
Unless there is an unmentioned strong religious or cultural reason that you haven’t had sex after a year – or apparently done anything physical that would give him a decent idea of what your body looks like – it is difficult for me to imagine how this situation can exist.
Then realize that you don’t always need to vocalize your thoughts. You were not sure if your girlfriend was right because you said you thought you would have heard of it, but you were also not sure if she was wrong. Correct? In that situation your response should have been a, “That’s interesting. I have never heard of that.” Don’t imply she’s wrong. Later you can look it up, like you did. And in this instance, she was right, so you could have avoided this entire situation. And honestly if she was wrong, who really cares?
So is it not all the time as in normal friendly behaviour of her friend group?
Maybe don't talk to much about fantasies as they can lead to a dark place. Then your fantasy might become a reality and it may not really be the thing you want.
I had a fantasy about my girlfriend fucking a big black guy. One day she did cheat on me and it made things even worse as I was in no control of the fantasy.
Yeah, I wouldn't be surprised if by “single” she meant unmarried.
He fled the scene and that wasn’t another huge red flag? Are you serious?
I didn't even know driving around in the snow for no reason, is even a thing.
Why does he think this is a good idea? Neither of you have a good relationship with her, so why does she deserve alone time with your child with neither of you present to protect baby?
People who want to be writers… like what?? Lol
My guess, totally unsubstantiated, is that her fiancé doesn't like OP. She chose the fiancé over her long time friend.
sounds like two catty women that grew out of friendship
yeah, sorry, but it sounds like they were hooking up with her “before” not “afterwards”.
You can't change her mind. Work on processing this and changing your own mind before you make the same mistakes again. Waiting for the context of a committed relationship is ok if that makes you more comfortable, but waiting for marriage is a recipe for disaster.
You can't change her mind. Work on processing this and changing your own mind before you make the same mistakes again. Waiting for the context of a committed relationship is ok if that makes you more comfortable, but waiting for marriage is a recipe for disaster.
Because I'm not discussing power dynamics in relationships, I'm discussing ability to converse and connect. My point is that even when there is a cultural, age, or maturity divide, there is still common ground and ability to connect and share empathy. What you are saying is akin to a conversation about which motorbike is faster and then telling me I'm wrong because cars are faster.
They seem to have a strong twin bond and like to spend their time together, with just the two of them. I understand how that's hurtful for you but I don't really think you can change that. Maybe sit down with them and talk about how you feel left out and hurt. And depending on their reaction you can go LC or even NC.
I don’t get how she called you a pedo when you thought someone only four years younger than (and of legal age for two years) you was attractive as she’s sitting there dating a guy who’s five years older than her and barely had let the ink dry on her transition to adulthood. When someone points at you, there are three fingers pointing back at them. You’re not a pedo, but her bf sounds like he could be. She doesn’t sound like a very good friend and kudos to you for standing up for yourself.
Oh my god just don't. This is bullshit and too manipulative and immature to entertain.
He 'made me admit' (whatever). He did that to get a pass for fucking someone else. 'You did too!' Two and a half months, introducing to family? Come on OP. I make it naked for him to break up with me, and that he couldn’t handle the fact that I’ve slept with someone else and just tried to start something new rather than fixing our relationship. EMOTIONAL MANIPULATION 101. 'You had a life after we broke up so I have NO CHOICE but to make you feel shitty!' He says straight up that he fucks women he has no feelings for. Hmm. Is that the kind of man you want to be with? Who is to say he isn't doing the same to you?
Listen I could go on here, but I'm exhausted and you should be too. You are 20 years old. Break up. Date other people. Go to school, find a good job, stop fucking around with dudes like this.
Well yeah I hope but still curious if men would think about it
Hire a cleaning service, hire a babysitter and go out with some friends, hire whomever you need. He either gets with the program or he doesn’t. If doesn’t then it’s definitely worth moving on.
What is he blackmailing you with?
Keep your job. Go see the appropriate authority (work or legal) about his behavior and let him deal with the consequences.
Did you actually talk to your father about it, or are you taking her word? If you haven't spoken with him directly, definitely do that first.
Also, how old are your younger siblings?
Sounds like he's projecting
I think you’re lying to yourself as well as your wife. This is an emotional affair. You spend tons of time talking with and essentially dating another woman with your “museum trips” and lying to your wife about it.
Your friend should find a man of her own. You need to decide who is more important—your wife or your “friend.”
You say “lack of time due to kids” as a reason why your connection is weaker. So let me get this straight: your wife deals with the kids while you have fun talks and museum trips with another woman. And the other woman is just fine with this. She clearly has no regard for your wife.
Just stop it if you want to stay married. Tell your “friend” good bye.
“who allowed you to be this hot/beautiful” “Hey gorgeous, how was your day?” “You look stunning, as always.” “Im so lucky to have such a beautiful wife”
You're both British, end of discussion. This whole “who's more British” usually comes with quite a few underlying issues….(e.g. just recently one of the top posts over on AITA about a husband complaining about his wife wearing Indian clothing to work, while they both live in the UK and identify as British).
Is he an old friend? New friend? Romantic/ sexual history? Does she message him continuously throughout the day or just sporadically? Does she tell you what they talk about? Have you suggested reducing the amount the massage and what is her response?
Instead of making him realise anything. YOU should realise that you are in an abusive relationship, ENGAGED to an abusive man child that will only get wors over time.
Run and dont look back, or accept the life that you are choosing to have.
But you know why.
You were talking about your nose and he saw a window of opportunity to mention that it could be smaller. He said this because he thinks it’s big and he wouldn’t mind if you got surgery. Like it’s exactly as it sounds.
It's her who should “have enough”.
That's 3 arsshat moves in one.
Wondering why she even drove over?
I agree. He’s just trying to make it ok
No, it was good for you to know. Have the two of you had unprotected sex since? If so, it might be good for you to get tested as well
And yes we knew about our age gap from the very beginning
People 25+ going for teenagers? For most, not something they're interested in.
Most 26 year olds are in a completely different life stage, they have a VERY different timeline, and there's a life experience and maturity gap. Sure this woman simply not be in the same place as her peers.
Reread your own comments
Hi, child of addicts here. I’ve been around addiction my whole life. And I can tell you from first-hand experience; she isn’t getting better because she doesn’t want to. She has no friends because of this. She can’t hold a job or a steady living situation because of this. Her mental health/living/relationship problems are all from her addiction and her refusal to get help. She doesn’t need to move in with you, she needs to go to rehab. Your bf enabling her will only lead to him more than likely using again. There could be the possibility of them using and bonding again, then you have two problems on your hands. And at the end of that, he’s so defensive and is basically just discounting your concerns by saying “it’s just because you just don’t know her” is very telling. They’re co-dependent and that’s unlikely to change. Maybe think a lot about your relationship, where you see it going, and whether it can be sustained with her being in the picture. Good luck, OP.
Darn, it does sound like a romcom. I can picture “My bestfriend's wedding” and then op realised she also had always been in love with her bestie…
I know this is going to be really nude to believe- I can’t even remember. It was trivial and not worthy of the reaction. But I think he reacted the way he did because he was worried that our fighting was agitating his brother and he is deeply afraid of his manic episodes. His parents are currently abroad trying to get his mom a kidney off the black market and he is stuck home with his brother as his caretaker until they can return, which is an indefinite timeline. He is stressed, and scared for his mom. He also clearly does give a s**t about me rn.
You don't need help. She does.
Then it's settled then!
I like Esther Perel. But she's not one of the most respected couples therapists. She is one of the most well known, but that's like saying Dr Phil is one of the most well known doctors. She is very active on podcasts and has written many books, but she hasn't done a ton of education/research in her field. Not saying she isn't knowledgable. She is, and I often enjoy what insight she has. But strictly speaking, it's not based in science as much as her own theoretical ideas. It is a fact that past partners are the 2nd most frequent source of affair partners. Of course there are exceptions and people can make it work. But oftentimes, most don't.
If someone is constantly screaming at you, you need to leave. Right now you are proving him right, he can do whatever and you stick around. Prove him wrong.
You clearly are not out of your element.
Honestly, I’d be more concerned about your fairly obvious drinking problem than I would a hung over girl on the couch: but it sounds to me like maybe you’ve done other incredibly dumb things while intoxicated so I can’t particularly blame her for her reaction. I just question the focus, all things considered. There are certainly worse things which could occur when routinely getting black out drunk than having a coworker pass out on your couch- opposite sex or not.
You should probably dry up a bit and get it together.
You can feel like she's overreacting all you like, but I'd have dumped you already and not ever looked back.
For many reasons, including heavy drinking, lying by omission, a total lack of respect for your relationship, and generally acting shady so you can do what you want.
You really have no business being in a relationship. If you want to act single, then go be single.
My take is, dump him now, not later. The longer you are together, the more he may be traumatized when you send him packing.