I could maybe forgive the first one if he was just trying to convince a single friend to come out but the rest is just too much. 32?!!! This is not how a 32 year old man should talk
Some commentors are calling you an uncaring gold digger. But what I see is the problem that occurs when a single person gets involved with someone with a young child they are not in a position to adopt. Your fiance and his ex are co-parenting their child so she's always going to be a presence in your relationship. He also feels that it's important to provide a roof over his daughter's head (including her mother's), which any good dad would do.
In many respects you might be considered a 3rd wheel in a 3-way relationship. There are a number of questions you should be asking yourself: 1. Will you be OK being the 3rd wheel?
Do you want to bring your children into a relationship where you and them would be a lower priority?
Do you deserve to be in a relationship in which your feelings and your needs are a high priority?
Only you can truthfully answer these questions whose answers may lead you to a more balanced, loving relationship.
I could maybe forgive the first one if he was just trying to convince a single friend to come out but the rest is just too much. 32?!!! This is not how a 32 year old man should talk
Some commentors are calling you an uncaring gold digger. But what I see is the problem that occurs when a single person gets involved with someone with a young child they are not in a position to adopt. Your fiance and his ex are co-parenting their child so she's always going to be a presence in your relationship. He also feels that it's important to provide a roof over his daughter's head (including her mother's), which any good dad would do.
In many respects you might be considered a 3rd wheel in a 3-way relationship. There are a number of questions you should be asking yourself: 1. Will you be OK being the 3rd wheel?
Do you want to bring your children into a relationship where you and them would be a lower priority?
Do you deserve to be in a relationship in which your feelings and your needs are a high priority?
Only you can truthfully answer these questions whose answers may lead you to a more balanced, loving relationship.
I wish you the best.