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In a relationship, people communicate. If she wasn’t at work or at home, the two places she’s expected to be, then she should communicate. No one cares if she was running an errand or visiting family or friends. She didn’t communicate, then got super defensive and started CRYING, and ran out of the house. How is it his “little outburst?” She’s the one who freaked out when asked a simple question.
You need to be absolutely blunt. You should not be having to figure out if something is a “test” or him looking for an excuse to blow up at you. This situation is a mess and getting sharply worse.
Your talking points need to be not a million miles away from:
I really like you, but recently your behaviour toward me has been becoming increasingly volatile and aggressively, and we need to talk about that.
It is not acceptable for you to speak to me passive aggressively. If you want something I need you to say so directly. From now on, if you don’t directly ask me for something and later get aggressive because I didn’t take the hint, I will not be accepting that behaviour.
I will also not be accepting you telling me to fuck off, slamming doors around the house, rejecting my calls and then pretending you missed them, leaving me on read about emotionally important messages, etc.
You apologise after doing these things, but those apologies don’t come with changed behaviour; you explode about something else and then apologise again, and it no longer feels sincere. Apologies without change aren’t real apologies and aren’t good enough.
I refuse to walk on eggshells around you because of your explosive temper. That dynamic will rapidly become abusive if not checked and this conversation is me checking it. Enough.
If you don’t know why you’re doing these things, then by the first week of the new year I expect to see you with ongoing therapy appointments booked in to begin addressing and controlling your aggression and contempt toward me. I expect to see a visible improvement by no later than the middle of February. If you aren’t motivated to address your own behaviour toward me with serious effort and change, I am not going to stick around for it.
If this isn’t a symptom and instead reflects how you feel about me, I’m done and we are over.
You don’t need this in your life. It doesn’t matter what his diagnosis is; he’s starting to really mess with you and if he won’t address it that’s the same as choosing to keep doing it. Constant sorries accompanying worsening behaviour means you have to either stop the slide dead or get out.
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I had a wedding in a city where my husband's family was, but none of our friends lived there. We invited people, and reserved an entire Airbnb house. We did ask for people who chose to come to pay for their share of a room at the Airbnb, which was cheaper than staying at a hotel. Our friends live all over the US, some much further than 200km.
This was our wedding, this is how we wanted it, and we were not upset with any friends who did not wish to pay to travel and stay there.
If you don't wish to go, don't go. It's as simple as that. They've set the conditions, and you are not forced to go.
Don’t date a coworker!
My partner and I became official and then had sex on the third time being official. It wasn't planned neither of us had condoms. But we're responsible adults so we drove our asses to Walmart and picked up some condoms that very night. No mood ruined even more anticipation tbh. So not sure why you guys couldn't do the same?
It’s not really out of convenience. Obviously it wouldn’t be convenient, but that’s not the point. Thank you for your comment
Absolutely no. Tell her to kick rocks.
She is a narcissist as all cheaters are. If you get back together in her mind it would validate everything she did and it would give her the green light to do it again.
It would solidify that you are a doormat and she can do whatever she wants and still get back to you.
It's like the posts you see here where the high school bully asks forgiveness and the victim is like nah bro you ruined my teen years and the bully is shocked they don't get absolved. There's never an obligation to accept an apology. Also, OP is right – she could have ended things sooner if he had been honest. And that's exactly why he wasn't. He needed to string her along in case things didn't work out with the new girl. She has every right to be furious.
I saw a tiktok that said men married the person in front of them when they are ready. Not necessarily the person who is best for them or that they are in love with. It sounds like he is ready and trying to slide a ring on the first finger that accepts
end our relationship over something that happened that long ago
The act happened long ago but the lies continue to this day.
how can I forgive him and keep on working in our current problems if he lied to me for all this time without feeling an ounce of guilt?
And how do you know he's not lying about other stuff? how do you know it's only that one time he cheated? What other fights are there that he did something?
Go your separate ways and figure out how to be a good co-parent, if possible.
I have an inkling this cheater is losing the least because he has money. I said this in his original thread and I stand by it: OP’s dad cheated with a woman 18 years younger and knocked her up. What do you want to bet the dad has a lot more money than mom, and if OP chooses his mom he’ll lose out on that inheritance?
I'm assuming you've already done this, but if you haven't, sit down with him when you're both calm, i.e. when he's not making those comments. Tell him how el how his comments make you feel, and let him know that his teasing about your relationship with your father is harming your relationship with your bf. Tell him clearly that you need for him to stop.
If he doesn't stop, then I think it's because he's jealous of your relationship with your father and wants you to be more attacked to him (your bf) instead. He's probably doing this as a way to try to get you to let go of that connection. Depending on how important your bf is to you, you may bring this up and ask him directly if that's why he's continuing to do this. Personally, I wouldn't bother with this extra step though, and I'd just find somebody who can respect my existing relationships with others out of the box.
I don't see this as you giving him permission. I see thos as him badgering you untill you said he could do it in order to shut him up. This doesn't even resemble an open relationship. This is cheating, except that he doesn't even have to bother hiding it. It will always hurt you and he will never care. Break up with him and find someone who cares about you.
I wasn't downing you. If I came off that way I apologize.
I will never know how someone can date a twat waffle for 9 years without knowing they are a smelly asshole.
I would say “you’re 28 and my friends are 20 you also have a boyfriend wtf are you saying”
Nope. Let her cry it out but NOPE!!!! A break up was in order. If the genders were reversed, folks would say to “break up with him/leave him/ you deserve better.”
Op, let her have her fun and pls get tested. You caught her today. Who's to say this isn't her pattern of behavior.
Nope!!! You did the right thing. That apology is for her. Now you both can move on.
Why did you get back together?
Why did you propose knowing this instability?
You are welcome. The woman you know is dead. She is in a fog and now is the time to get the best possible time to negotiate.
In your gut you know what is right and by posting here I think you know it's time to break up. Being kind at time is not enough. Being kind and respectful all the time is what you deserve. You need 100% respect.
Oh boy. Yeah, I mean…I think you should probably learn more about Judaism. These are really more cultural traditions than they are beliefs in a higher power.
So perfectly said.
Oof that’s tough. As for the turning off with negative situations I can actually relate. I grew up with an extremely abusive (physically and mentally) mother. My god it was terrible. She was hateful and cruel and until recently I cut her off for 20 years. It was easier to just shut down and/or agree or there would be a multi day fight if I actually stood my ground. She was always fighting with partners, being abusive to them too, so I made a pact when I was young, like 13 or something and said I never want to argue with anybody I happen to date. That lead me into some pretty miserable relationships where I would just shut down when it got bad. I’m talking getting hit and being treated like actual shit. As I got older I got tired of being like that and outgrew the shut down aspect, things got easier. The minor comments don’t bother me, it’s just somebody stating a fact, but if things get really heated I’d still completely close off. It’s not a problem any more, but it took years to outgrow it. A few toxic relationships helped me realize I’m just going to be treated like shit unless I stand up or simply walk away from said toxic situations. If there’s trauma he’s not telling you about, that could be an issue. As for the other stuff I don’t know what to say. There has to be a reason. Maybe he’s scared of disappointing people, so he just agrees so people like him. Could be low self esteem or some other mental health issue. Some people assume you need to agree 100% with a partner, when successful long term relationships challenge each of you to be better, and you don’t have to agree on everything and can have your own hobbies.
Love/lust can make us look past red flags so a very serious conversation needs to happen. It might be too late, or it might not be. One thing for sure if you both don’t nip it in the bud, you’ll grow to resent him, and that could cross a line there’s no coming back from.
Ok, this is a long post, and I haven't gotten very far into it yet, but I noticed something in the first couple paragraphs:
Me and my boyfriend have been in a long distance-relationship for a year and a half now.
…I have helped him get his own car, apartment and job.
Helped him… how? In what way? Did you give or loan him money? Because, frankly, I'm immediately concerned that you may have been over-involved in his major financial decisions & activities from too early in this relationship. If by “helped” you only mean “acted as a sounding board and gave the best advice you could,” then that's fine. But anything more involved makes my spidey senses tingle a bit
Yes indeed. Per capita aka per person it is approx. 30k above average for my area. Something like top 14%. For any age range, yet she always says we are poor…totally odd. She makes like nearly 60k as well. Distorted reality.
So he’s asking you to abuse alcohol because he does. That sounds borderline abusive to me. Does he try coercing you into other things as well?
Beyoncé is naturally pretty and has talent/money. You are just jobless with no money.