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Sounds like you’ve just had bad luck in finding clean guys. I’d say about 30-40% of my guy friend group are pretty clean myself included. I usually clean the kitchen atleast half the week and help with my laundry among other things.
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I notice how nobody is jumping on you for saying this, likely based on you having a vaguely feminine-looking avatar and a potentially female name worked into your moniker… yet someone who was presumed to be male made the exact same comment and people were out to get them instantly. Brilliant.
Dude don't stay with a girl that is literally berating you and damaging your self esteem. No one that actually cares about you would do that. You deserve better. There are alooot of girls out there who don't act like immature ass bullies.
I suggest you dump this chick and go find one of those.
So she's aware he's “into” her, they've known each other a long time.
In all that time have you discussed with her how completely uncomfortable this makes you feel? Have you drawn boundaries around what should and shouldn't be happening?
I only say the above as devils advocate, as any reasonable, normal person in a relationship should, knowing someone that isn't their partner is “into” them, would make a purposeful and clear point of either cutting ties with or avoiding any unnecessary interactions with and clearly targeted behaviour they express.
If she isn't and is in fact playing with it – well, she either loves the attention or is steps from making it more than flirting, both of which are as bad as far as I'm concerned.
Being remorseful is not evidence that he is “very interested in fixing things.” If he genuinely wanted to fix things he wouldnt have deleted all the texts, he would openly be communicating about why he felt the need to do those things, he would be actively seeking help for himself (if it really is an addiction which idk..) AND probably suggesting couples counseling. It's easy to act sorry after you get caught, its hot to actually put in work and change. Don't just listen to his words you have to consider his actions, and right now his actions say he hasnt respected you the entire time you were together.
You are making a good points here. Maybe this was hot on me simply because he said he used to like her and they didn't work out bc they are i different cities…And that he rated her higher than me. This buged me the most. With all of his colleguaes (even the attractive ones ) I had zero problems…And yes. From my previous ecperience some ppl who are cheaters go out in the public to make it like it is nothing
he doesn’t want me to question him. I think a big problem with me is that I don’t have full trust in him.
The problem isn't with you, even if your injury might still cause issues.
Clearly your bf wants a submissive and obedient woman to order around.
Refusing to “be questionned”? That's the attitude of a person who has no good reason or logic other than “because I want to” and does not respect you at all.
Its not about being efficient or anything, it is just “beneath him”
Sounds like you’ve just had bad luck in finding clean guys. I’d say about 30-40% of my guy friend group are pretty clean myself included. I usually clean the kitchen atleast half the week and help with my laundry among other things.
Sounds like a HER problem and not a YOU problem.
Your only priorities are you and your daughter.
I'm glad your edit shows you realized this also.
You don’t follow the sport, I don’t blame you
Tell him he’s a 6/10 then go look for an 8. Let’s see how he likes that.
Tell him he’s a 6/10 then go look for an 8. Let’s see how he likes that.
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Never move in with someone who doesn't treat your pet well. If he treats your dog bad now, just imagine how much worse it's going to get.
I notice how nobody is jumping on you for saying this, likely based on you having a vaguely feminine-looking avatar and a potentially female name worked into your moniker… yet someone who was presumed to be male made the exact same comment and people were out to get them instantly. Brilliant.
There are a lot of people who actually prepurchased too
Honestly it’s about breaking away as clean as you can and not having extra drama.
5 years later it wouldn’t be considered PPD.
Dude don't stay with a girl that is literally berating you and damaging your self esteem. No one that actually cares about you would do that. You deserve better. There are alooot of girls out there who don't act like immature ass bullies.
I suggest you dump this chick and go find one of those.
I wasn't thinking when that happened, but I can see it now
So she's aware he's “into” her, they've known each other a long time.
In all that time have you discussed with her how completely uncomfortable this makes you feel? Have you drawn boundaries around what should and shouldn't be happening?
I only say the above as devils advocate, as any reasonable, normal person in a relationship should, knowing someone that isn't their partner is “into” them, would make a purposeful and clear point of either cutting ties with or avoiding any unnecessary interactions with and clearly targeted behaviour they express.
If she isn't and is in fact playing with it – well, she either loves the attention or is steps from making it more than flirting, both of which are as bad as far as I'm concerned.
Being remorseful is not evidence that he is “very interested in fixing things.” If he genuinely wanted to fix things he wouldnt have deleted all the texts, he would openly be communicating about why he felt the need to do those things, he would be actively seeking help for himself (if it really is an addiction which idk..) AND probably suggesting couples counseling. It's easy to act sorry after you get caught, its hot to actually put in work and change. Don't just listen to his words you have to consider his actions, and right now his actions say he hasnt respected you the entire time you were together.
You are making a good points here. Maybe this was hot on me simply because he said he used to like her and they didn't work out bc they are i different cities…And that he rated her higher than me. This buged me the most. With all of his colleguaes (even the attractive ones ) I had zero problems…And yes. From my previous ecperience some ppl who are cheaters go out in the public to make it like it is nothing
he doesn’t want me to question him. I think a big problem with me is that I don’t have full trust in him.
The problem isn't with you, even if your injury might still cause issues.
Clearly your bf wants a submissive and obedient woman to order around.
Refusing to “be questionned”? That's the attitude of a person who has no good reason or logic other than “because I want to” and does not respect you at all.
Its not about being efficient or anything, it is just “beneath him”
Well I saw the text on her phone.
Sorry I didn't know you lived in the third world.