So, let me see if I have this right. This couple want to 1) pay below market rate to online in your house, 2) take up another bedroom as an office space/games room, 3) have you drive them everywhere, and 4) very likely have you become thier babysitter as well.
Did I miss anything?
I would love to be able to have an extra room to support a friend in need, but even then the above would be a deal breaker for me. Boundaries are so important in these situations, and it sounds like your husband is happy to allow his friends to tread all over them.
He's potentially just had a bit of a fright with your best friend being pregnant , he's put himself in their place and re-confirmed with himself that he doesn't want to have kids so wants to take extra steps… Honestly it's probably not going to be a permanent thing unless you both want it to be
I had a similar thing with an ex of mine where someone in her year ended up pregnant even though she was on BC (she had gotten drunk , had sex and also been sick and apparently was just not good taking the pill in general) whereas my ex had the implant. We didn't wear condoms after that but I didn't “finish” inside for a few months
So, let me see if I have this right. This couple want to 1) pay below market rate to online in your house, 2) take up another bedroom as an office space/games room, 3) have you drive them everywhere, and 4) very likely have you become thier babysitter as well.
Did I miss anything?
I would love to be able to have an extra room to support a friend in need, but even then the above would be a deal breaker for me. Boundaries are so important in these situations, and it sounds like your husband is happy to allow his friends to tread all over them.
I would have left you with zero regrets the first time you did that.
He's potentially just had a bit of a fright with your best friend being pregnant , he's put himself in their place and re-confirmed with himself that he doesn't want to have kids so wants to take extra steps… Honestly it's probably not going to be a permanent thing unless you both want it to be
I had a similar thing with an ex of mine where someone in her year ended up pregnant even though she was on BC (she had gotten drunk , had sex and also been sick and apparently was just not good taking the pill in general) whereas my ex had the implant. We didn't wear condoms after that but I didn't “finish” inside for a few months
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