If you do decide to reach out, you need to go in expecting a “no” or even a harsh response – and them being her feelings, whatever she gives won't be wrong, even if it hurts you.
It does sound a little… Weird that you're so invested in a stranger just because of a blood and familial connection, because… Yeah, you don't know anything about her (or her about you and your brother).
Anyway, go in with realistic expectations, and if she doesn't give you a positive reply, just remember – just like you feel is your right to contact her, it's her right to refuse it. But if she does want a relationship… Well, great, you get a big sister.
You just… Should really think about what you actually want from her, and what kind of connection you expect to have with her, and if you can live! knowing that there is this person who's your sibling out in the world… And she may well continue to not know you and your brother.
Oh nice you going to the Rose Bowl?
I did not have sex with her
After how he’s acted i’m not sure i’d have another with him
Did she ask for the space and you ignored it, or did she just expect you to know she needed it and got mad when you didn’t get it?
If you do decide to reach out, you need to go in expecting a “no” or even a harsh response – and them being her feelings, whatever she gives won't be wrong, even if it hurts you.
It does sound a little… Weird that you're so invested in a stranger just because of a blood and familial connection, because… Yeah, you don't know anything about her (or her about you and your brother).
Anyway, go in with realistic expectations, and if she doesn't give you a positive reply, just remember – just like you feel is your right to contact her, it's her right to refuse it. But if she does want a relationship… Well, great, you get a big sister.
You just… Should really think about what you actually want from her, and what kind of connection you expect to have with her, and if you can live! knowing that there is this person who's your sibling out in the world… And she may well continue to not know you and your brother.