I understand that and I am trying. I didn't feel guilty about going LC with him. It wasn't until I kept hearing but it's your brother from a couple of people when they found out i was planning on cutting him fully out. I think I'm primarily worried that he will follow through with his threat about cutting me out of my niece's life. He's losing custody of her, so I don't think that'll be a problem for long but if he finds a way to turn his ex on me then I'll be worried.
You can do better I promise you
I understand that and I am trying. I didn't feel guilty about going LC with him. It wasn't until I kept hearing but it's your brother from a couple of people when they found out i was planning on cutting him fully out. I think I'm primarily worried that he will follow through with his threat about cutting me out of my niece's life. He's losing custody of her, so I don't think that'll be a problem for long but if he finds a way to turn his ex on me then I'll be worried.