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I think you need to tell him. Maybe just don’t lead with “so a client tried to fuck me.”
Maybe tell him you have some new free time because you fired a client and ask him if you can meet up for lunch or coffee, then when he asks why you fired the client talk to him about it in an nbd way.
I'm gonna tell you a story about my own relationships when I was in my early 20s, which may or may not help in your situation.
Sex and sexual desire for me was new and INTENSE, so whenever it was there, all my logical thought processes went out the window. Maybe if I was talking about something else, like food, I'd be able to calmly explain, “I know you're tired, but I was really hoping to have a pizza tonight, would you mind staying awake half an hour for a couple of slices?”
In my situation, it was more like I constantly was like I was ravenously starving, so (a) I couldn't have a calm conversation about it and (b) I couldn't understand it when other people weren't constantly starving too.
It probably didn't help that I wasn't satisfied if the person politely ate the pizza when I suggested it – they had to be salivating at the slightest whiff of pepperoni (in this case, the lingerie and makeup) and initiate the gorging on food. If they weren't absolutely falling over themselves to eat as much pizza as they could, I took that as a sign of rejection and the emotional system that was in charge of my brain had a meltdown.
Doesn't sound normal, does it? Yeah, unsurprisingly, it turns out I had undiagnosed ADHD and rejection sensitive dysphoria is a hugely common symptom. I could “logic” rejection away with most situations (like at work or with friends) but when it came to sex, it was such an intense and overwhelming situation to begin with that adding rejection to the mix (especially when I'd put the effort into makeup, lingerie etc) was too much for me to handle.
It got better with age as my sex drive became less intense, but idk if you want to wait 10-15 years for that to happen.
TL;DR: google the symptoms of autism and ADHD and see if any of them resonate.
I think you need to tell him. Maybe just don’t lead with “so a client tried to fuck me.”
Maybe tell him you have some new free time because you fired a client and ask him if you can meet up for lunch or coffee, then when he asks why you fired the client talk to him about it in an nbd way.
Did you contract a STD? If not, what’s the point of divulging anymore information?
I'm gonna tell you a story about my own relationships when I was in my early 20s, which may or may not help in your situation.
Sex and sexual desire for me was new and INTENSE, so whenever it was there, all my logical thought processes went out the window. Maybe if I was talking about something else, like food, I'd be able to calmly explain, “I know you're tired, but I was really hoping to have a pizza tonight, would you mind staying awake half an hour for a couple of slices?”
In my situation, it was more like I constantly was like I was ravenously starving, so (a) I couldn't have a calm conversation about it and (b) I couldn't understand it when other people weren't constantly starving too.
It probably didn't help that I wasn't satisfied if the person politely ate the pizza when I suggested it – they had to be salivating at the slightest whiff of pepperoni (in this case, the lingerie and makeup) and initiate the gorging on food. If they weren't absolutely falling over themselves to eat as much pizza as they could, I took that as a sign of rejection and the emotional system that was in charge of my brain had a meltdown.
Doesn't sound normal, does it? Yeah, unsurprisingly, it turns out I had undiagnosed ADHD and rejection sensitive dysphoria is a hugely common symptom. I could “logic” rejection away with most situations (like at work or with friends) but when it came to sex, it was such an intense and overwhelming situation to begin with that adding rejection to the mix (especially when I'd put the effort into makeup, lingerie etc) was too much for me to handle.
It got better with age as my sex drive became less intense, but idk if you want to wait 10-15 years for that to happen.
TL;DR: google the symptoms of autism and ADHD and see if any of them resonate.