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When I had my son I did not expect my mum or my in-laws to drop everything to provide childcare. He is my son, not theirs.
I find it appalling that so many people having children expect their parents to help with childcare. I actually had words with my friend’s parents as one of them is disabled and looking after the children under 5 a lot and complaining about the pain!
It is lovely if grandparents want to help and I don’t usually say no if they offer but I do not expect it.
Tell her no and explain why.
You can offer meals on wheels when she gives birth. You can pop in for a few hours to let mum catch up sleep if you want. But you get to pick and choose as you are grandma.
Imagine you on-line together one day. Expect to have to tell him to replace the bin bag after taking out the rubbish. Or to have to ask him over and over and over again what groceries should be added to the grocery list. Or holidays – expect to be made to all planning for holiday gatherings. Not to mention the incredible emotional labour that is on your shoulders and yours alone – because he just couldn't be bothered. Those small everyday things add up and are NOT worth it.
When you say you wanted her to help guide you, my guess is you wanted her to tell you what to do but that isn’t what a therapist or psychologist will do, they will not tell you what to do, they will try to help you become independent and able to make these decisions on your own, but as I said I’m assuming you just wanted them to tell you what to do
When I had my son I did not expect my mum or my in-laws to drop everything to provide childcare. He is my son, not theirs.
I find it appalling that so many people having children expect their parents to help with childcare. I actually had words with my friend’s parents as one of them is disabled and looking after the children under 5 a lot and complaining about the pain!
It is lovely if grandparents want to help and I don’t usually say no if they offer but I do not expect it.
Tell her no and explain why.
You can offer meals on wheels when she gives birth. You can pop in for a few hours to let mum catch up sleep if you want. But you get to pick and choose as you are grandma.
Not over reacting, next time he's intimate tell him, “you know what I'm too loose, maybe you shouldn't do this since I am”
Imagine you on-line together one day. Expect to have to tell him to replace the bin bag after taking out the rubbish. Or to have to ask him over and over and over again what groceries should be added to the grocery list. Or holidays – expect to be made to all planning for holiday gatherings. Not to mention the incredible emotional labour that is on your shoulders and yours alone – because he just couldn't be bothered. Those small everyday things add up and are NOT worth it.
Why the fuck wouldn't you want to lose him. Have a bit of self respect.
When you say you wanted her to help guide you, my guess is you wanted her to tell you what to do but that isn’t what a therapist or psychologist will do, they will not tell you what to do, they will try to help you become independent and able to make these decisions on your own, but as I said I’m assuming you just wanted them to tell you what to do