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You know. We good people of reddit can give all the advice in the world. But at the end of the day, the only thing that’s going to matter is how you feel.
Yes I think he’s an asshole for lying. And I’d definitely put in a boundary that if he ever lies to you again it’s done.
I can also understand why he’d lie even if I don’t agree with it.
If you’re satisfied you’ve got the full truth out of him now then listen to your heart as to whether it’s something you can get over or not. Get individual and/or couples counselling if you think it’ll help you reach a decision. Take your time, it’s not a race. But if after a while you realise that it’s something that you’re never going to get over then be honest with yourself and with him, end it so you can both heal and move on.
On the other hand, If you find over time that it no longer bothers you and your relationship is better than ever, then great! Hopefully it’ll be a long and happy union. Whichever way it goes down, all the best OP.
You can't fix other people.
Support her and don't say anything blunt or insensitive to her.
She will likely get motivated in the spring when the days get longer and she feels more energetic.
Ironically enough, no girl wants to date me because i am too thin ? ??
Personally, I do not think people can change when it comes to these types of behaviors in relationships. He’s flat out telling you he’s cheating without using the specific word and giving you all the evidence that he’s doing so. My ex also swore on his mother’s life that he would never cheat on me because he was humiliated after being cheated on in college and that he knows how to be a decent guy.? The ones that swear they’re not like the others end up being the worst perpetrators of cheating it feels like.
My mom was 42 and many families Ive nannied for had kids in their late 30s or early 40s. You’re not too old. Go find that special someone who will be your partner in building a life!
So, let me tell you what I see.
My mom sounds somewhat similar to your partner's mom, in that she is extremely anxious, worries constantly, and inflicts that worry on her children – effectively making it their problem too.
For a long time, I abided her anxieties. I made “compromises” like your partner did, and I kept drawing lines and the flexing them because I didn't want to upset mom too much. My life in my early 20's was basically a constant negotiation with my mom to “let” me do certain things – she never phrased it that way, but when you're got two choices and one upsets mom, making the other choice is the same net effect as seeking and being denied permission to be an adult.
Here's a story: there was a time when I went to see a movie with friends of mine. I had my phone in my pocket, set to vibrate because I'm a good theater-goer, and I was just chilling and enjoying myself. I felt it go off about halfway through the movie, and I ignored it. Then a bit later, it went off again. And then again. And then 4 more times over the course of an hour. Just as the movie ended, I pulled it out to see who had called so urgently and received a call from my sister.
“You have to call mom. She's panicking right now and she's about to call the cops.”
So indeed I call and my mom is sobbing and upset because she couldn't get a hold of me when she wanted to. Her exact reasoning was that apparently I had pocket answered her first call, she heard rustling and then it hung up, and her “only reasonable conclusion” was that I had been kidnapped.
That was the moment when I realized how big a problem this was. I was 28 years old, and my mom was afraid I was going to be abducted like a toddler. I'm now 40, and after several years of very hot boundaries, hanging up on her, ignoring calls, refusing to answer inane questions, and a brief involuntarily commitment where we learned that my mom has lived with undiagnosed and untreated bipolar disorder her entire life, my mom and I finally have a healthy relationship predicated on mutual respect. I work diligently to maintain the boundaries that allow that to be the case.
Your partner needs to be able to make his mother cry and not waver. She needs to be a sobbing anxious manipulative mess right to his face, and he needs to be able to hold firm to his boundaries or else it will literally never improve. He is going to fail at this several times, I would put cash money on that. You need to decide whether or not you're going to stick around waiting for him to grow up and grow a spine; I had a girlfriend leave me during the worst of my mom's bullshit, and it was definitely the right choice for her to make (I didn't realize it at the time of course, but later down the road it was totally obvious).
Best of luck, OP.
I am trying so very hot to forgive him still working on it but I just hate the person this has turned me into. Jealous, controlling and mean.
I’m in therapy and have been for years. My man and I have been together for about 6 years. This issue has arrived the last two years and has started hitting a head. I wish therapy was helping. Lol. I’m more worried there is legitimately something wrong with me.
wait, she was 16 and you were 19 when this “relationship” started?
that you know of
I would 100% want to know.
It is what it is. She’s telling OP the baby is the reason she isn’t having sex, then telling her mother that she can’t be alone with him without feeling like she’d be “forced do things.” She needs to tell him the actual reason she doesn’t want to have sex instead of using the baby as an excuse so they can actually work on a solution to this problem.
Immature AF. (I had to re-read the post to make sure he is not the 20hr old one.)
PTSD episode emotional pain like reliving horrific shit
Schedule a time to talk to your best friend about your feelings and concerns. Share how you feel about the situation after the car accident. Allow your best friend to share his perspective. Try to understand where he is coming from.
Discuss what kind of communication and support you need from each other and what your best friend needs as well. Set boundaries and make sure both of you are on the same page.
He may be going through his own stuff, but remember why you guy became friends in the first place. Focus on the good stuff going forward. For now, maybe give each other a little space? Take the time to focus on yourself and your own needs, and come back to the relationship with fresh eyes.
Yes, I never saw it coming. We never argued or fight and we had a lot in common. I guess distance and our age difference was such a big issue even though we constantly talked about it
Yes. But somebody dubbed my post “overdramatic”.
There are such weird people on Reddit… honestly!
She probably wants to tell you she is dating someone and does not want you to be surprised
Probably one of the best post replies I’ve read..
No, you don't tell him. You move on. You've been there and done that and it didnt work.
Nothing has really changed so of course there is still some feeling of a connection – he's still the attractive person he was before even if the relationship didnt work. His opinions of dating you in the future havent changed either. He's clearly told your “undercover” friend that No, he doesnt want to date you.
The only way you are going to get over him is to reduce contact. Block him, lose his number. This is really common advice because people simply cannot get over someone if they remain in contact with them.
Yeah I am into girls.
What responses? The majority I've read are suggesting she travel without the bf or find a bf who isn't scared of flying.