For me it came with not being in contact, focusing on myself, and recognizing that my need for closure came from my ego being bruised because I had let myself be used. Once I was able to heal, gave myself more opportunities to be in control, and started dating again, I got to a point of indifference (still there!)
Sometimes people can’t be friends with their ex, either immediately following the break up and sometimes never.
You aren’t responsible for him, his feelings or his mental health—he needs to deal with those things on his own. You’re allowed to move forward on your own.
Single guys that age are set in their ways. This ambiguity in behavior won’t change
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For me it came with not being in contact, focusing on myself, and recognizing that my need for closure came from my ego being bruised because I had let myself be used. Once I was able to heal, gave myself more opportunities to be in control, and started dating again, I got to a point of indifference (still there!)
Yeah if the genders were reversed here everyone would be much more up in arms about that
Sometimes people can’t be friends with their ex, either immediately following the break up and sometimes never.
You aren’t responsible for him, his feelings or his mental health—he needs to deal with those things on his own. You’re allowed to move forward on your own.