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I think you’re doing what you should here by working on your own insecurities and treating your wife well. That’s all you can continue to do.
Do you have the kind of relationship where you and your wife are ok with the other having a say in how you each do friendship in general, or friendship across genders in particular?
If so, the most you could do is say that you trust her but you don’t know or trust the guy’s intentions and you’d feel better if she didn’t pursue closer friendship with him (like doing the show and the game night).
That said, sometimes happily married people feel safe and “sibling-y” about making friends, because both people are taken and romance isn’t on the table. Sometimes people get mild crushes that turn into platonic friendships. Sometimes people cheat. Your wife told her friend that she’d never cheat.
You might feel buoyed that other people agree with you that your wife is a catch and that she’s still happy with and choosing you!
But you get to suss out what world you’re in. They share a creative hobby (theater) and he’s doing friendly invitations like a party at their house and game night. For all you know though, the email went to your wife but you’re invited to game night too?
His behavior sounds like someone wanting to make a closer friend. “Continuous presence” is how friends work. It sounds like you don’t want her to have him as a friend instead of a friendly acquaintance.
Maybe he’d be happy to be couple friends with him, his wife, you and your wife?
Washington is on the other side of the country
Dump him. Sexual coercion is never acceptable
Don't rationalise his toxicity by acknowledging his trauma. Yes, that trauma may indeed inform his frightening lack of empathy and care for you in this instance… but that isn't a reason to condone it.
If anything the course is clear: if he isn't in therapy dealing with the damage of his complicated history then it seems kind of inevitable this pattern will repeat. After all, he doesn't appear to even see the problem.
Though I will say this: the fact you are asking how to 'amend' this is a huge concern. You did nothing wrong, you are the victim in this scenario, and yet he is making you wonder what more you can do to make up for it? I worry what that says about how you view dynamics and that long term you may unwittingly end up enabling his toxicity.