Are you like 14? If you can’t understand how a baby- how raising an independent human being together as a family, to financially provide for for 18 years, dedicate nearly all of your time, and energy to, a human being whose survival and wellness are entirely reliant upon you two, a commitment to prioritize this human being- if you can’t understand how that can affect a relationship, you shouldn’t be in one.
If you want to get over the feelings get a girl for yourself (or two). I'm not sure if you are involved or dating but the best way to stop thinking about one girl is to get with another (or two).
Updateme!
Are you like 14? If you can’t understand how a baby- how raising an independent human being together as a family, to financially provide for for 18 years, dedicate nearly all of your time, and energy to, a human being whose survival and wellness are entirely reliant upon you two, a commitment to prioritize this human being- if you can’t understand how that can affect a relationship, you shouldn’t be in one.
dating a man- no
Oh well that changes everything. Your girlfriend is a hypocrite and why did you forgave her?
This is a huge red flag. He smashed your things. Not a good look.
If you want to get over the feelings get a girl for yourself (or two). I'm not sure if you are involved or dating but the best way to stop thinking about one girl is to get with another (or two).