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I mean, I could see it being about the threesome, she might have just looked quickly and started having doubts and then deleted it pretty soon after, which could be a reason it never came to fruition. I've downloaded Tinder during a relationship, never to cheat, once I did it for a friend that wanted to see if someone they were interested in still had their tinder profile. Once I also did it for a threesome, but also got cold feet and deleted it. Once was because I had turned my profile off but didn't fully delete it yet and once the relationship was pretty progressed I went back and deleted it.
A lot of people are saying why didn't she show the tinder account, but if she deleted it how could she do that? A lot of people also assume that if she was looking at girls for a threesome, but OP never specified what gender, I think it's annoying when people are chill with FFM but MFM is still cheating somehow, and how guys are on board fantasizing about a FFM interaction and even OP was willing to bring that up and she didn't leave him, but if a woman expressed the same interest in MFM the dude would probably leave.
How long has she known this friend? It might just be a genuine friend thing. I personally would do something like this because I’m dumb like that (get random things with meaning as long as it looks good) lmao
Do you still on-line together? I was told recently that if I want to fight for a relationship I should reach out and have a discussion, if there’s an issue why not spend time together resolving it slowly rather than keeping time apart. But it all depends on why he felt the need to break up with you. In all honesty I would try to work towards being content on your own, not with the idea that maybe he will come back to you. You should work on yourself for YOU.
she may not need a doctor, she may simply need someone that's not a sociopath.
Do you mind if I ask if you are male or female?
Sounds like you already decided.
Better to end it sooner than later. Time won’t change this issue
See initially I had thought of that angle. That my Mam knew what was going on and turned a blind eye to it all but over the last number of months of very gently touching on the topic of his behaviour with her I know that’s not the case.
What do I hope to achieve from this? Well peace of mind would be a good start. It would be nice to know that my Dad isn’t doing all this behind my Mam’s back and coming home and sharing a bed with her. What if he brings home an STD and passes it on? My Mam is an extremely nice woman and deserves better for everything she does for him (which is literally everything).
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Tell bf he hurt your feelings and figure out if the relationship is worth staying in. If you’re unhappy with your body, work out and eat healthier to lose the weight, DO NOT randomly stop taking anti depressants… that is a major health issue.
Younger even comparatively. My parents are both 60 and they are not going to get an old and out of hand pass for at least another decade.
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Thanks, this is probably the best read on the situation. Sometimes you really do need to hear it from someone else.
Listen, what happens if someday you get horribly injured, you gain weight, and she has to wipe your ass? If appearances are something you're already concerned about, that's a you problem if you think you'll lose attraction. Go to counseling and sort this out, and don't marry this girl if that will be a problem.
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I also need attention but somehow never turned to anyone else except her.
Lady, RUN! He's only dating you because he's “colorist” and sees you as some sort of status symbol.
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I’m not debating this, but do you have a link? This is very interesting news to me.
How did you start? What restrictions were there? Were you insecure?
I met my husband when I was 37 and we had our son when I was 40.
Stop stressing; there’s plenty of time.
Why do you think having this conversation will make things better?
They've made it clear you can't even be friends. At this point… I would just act as if they're dead. Nothing to do but move past it.
Do they have generational wealth where he doesn’t need to work?
If not, what are you doing with this guy?
He made question your own observations and thoughts. That besides being horrible partner that cheated on you. You should cut all contact with him or he will try yo sweet talk you back.
Yeah I don’t believe it’s the second option lol
Thank you for the advice! How do I stop from feeling upset over it or using it as a measurement of a relationship success? I guess my fear is that I’ve started to take the relationship too seriously and I have started to make plans but he doesn’t even want to plan a vacation with me for next year?
First relationship doesn’t mean it has to be your last relationship, especially if it’s one-sided.
It's a lower threshold, but it's still going to result in a lot of rapists having custody of the product of their rape. Especially when the rape occurs within a relationship. And OP reporting it to the police does not count as evidence that she was raped – so reporting it or not is immaterial to the clear and convincing standard IF she was in one of the few states that didn't also require a conviction.
This relationship was dead to rights the moment he wanted to mess around while also not giving you that freedom (even tho you’re loyal and he was banking on that).
If you keep hanging around assholes you will eventually smell like shit.
If they don't make you happy or contribute in any positive way then quit spending time with them. There is no need to hurt yourself to appear as a happy family.
The 3rd date seems so early
What do you even know about them?
You're running the risk of pregnancy on someone you know less than a work day?
If I were your gf reading your responses I’d dump you.
break the relationship and take the job my guy. If you stay, she's not going to suddenly change.
Lots of holes in your story man. As a single father, I generally try to provide a view that isn’t anti-male, but in this case it really sounds more like you looking for justification not a solution. Him being violent isn’t acceptable but violence doesn’t come from no where. If you genuinely want a solution, gather a list if the questions in the comments and edit your post with the answers.
You’re putting in effort to show you love her, even in ways you normally wouldn’t. If she can’t see that, it’s not a you problem. It’s a her problem.
It’s time to have a talk with her about that.
This is very toxic behavior and you’d be better off without her. You’re too young to be so invested in someone who continues to show you she doesn’t care about you at all. She probably got so drunk to disassociate from you in that moment. Not sure what your living situation is but my guess is that she is using you because “you’d do anything for her” and you take care of her. She’s an asshole. You deserve better.
I think so, I mean I already do double sessions weekly and for the past 6-8 weeks it's been exclusively around this issue. But my therapist has so far just asked questions, in their defense my therapist has helped me connect a lot of dots (like maybe I'm projecting my own desire for variety, which I think is only very slightly true, because deep down I know if this relationship ends I'll regress to celibacy again, etc) but it's been agonisingly slow progress. Maybe I should try another therapist, I think the cost of getting them up to speed is the real issue there. I will say this has become enough of an issue that some nights I just cry in bed quietly, especially after a particularly great day spent with my partner.
I was hoping maybe someone has been through this and the fear just 'goes away' after enough time.
Contact her parents and her pastor. This behavior is irrational and sounds like a chemical imbalance. She needs to be evaluated, immediately.
Oh , what an explanation you just did! You didnt explain anything, you iust repeated that you think they stem from insecurity , naming the reasons separately here, without explaining WHY you think so.
No, dominance over women doesnt stem from insecurity, but from a drive to possess power.
Jealousy doesnt ALWAYS stems from insecurity, come on, you at least can admit that.
I just explained ONE reason why a virgin would like another virgin, something completely different than insecurity, and you go ” Yup, thats insecurity right there!” Fucking brilliant.
Ignorance isnt fricking insecurity jesus christ. Open a dictionnary, and look at the meanings of words. But i'm gonna stop trying now, clearly you aint one to discuss opinions and introspect, at all.
And your last phrase, is that aimed at me? Telling me to get therapy for not generalising EVERYTHING a man does into insecurity sure sounds like a sane thing to do .
Friends don’t try to beat you down, they try to raise you up.
Disaster!!!!!
This is the only thing that will snap her out of it
Then good Lord, woman, don't worry about what he thinks.
He's not the one, and now you know. You are always going to have to do the heavy lifting. You are a convenience. You cook, you clean, what more could he ask for? You said yourself that he makes no effort. You've brought it to his attention and things stay the same. Concentrate on your studies and ditch the bf that isn't really a bf.
leave. 10 yrs is a long relationship but if you on-line until 80. you'll have 50 yrs of miserable life
I wouldn't want to marry someone who “thinks” they love me. I'd want them to be absolutely certain they wanted to spend the rest of their life with me. It wouldn't be fair to your fiance to go through with the wedding unless you're 110% sure you want to marry them.
He is an immature idiot. Find someone who isn't a todler
Can you go to couples counseling?
Op: “Hello HR. I want to report that my coworker smiles and has friendly conversations with me.”
HR: “What?!?! How dare she?!”