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1. That has all been resolved and she's known I want more kids before she ever moved in.

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2. Your post is very important but not for the reasons you might think.

   The Good News is, in your case you have done an excellent job identifying an important area of growth and communication.

   Lots of people who have not grown through their Social Awareness phase continue to use material from their teens and get EXACTLY the pattern you describe.

   Human Intimacy NEEDS to be expressed on all Four Planes of Human Existence.

   a.) Physical…..no explanation necessary

   b.) Emotional……and I DONT mean “emotionally-charged behavior”. I mean the expression, understanding and acceptance for the feeling engendered by recognizing the traits in oneself and one's SO. Each and every one of us longs to be affirmed for how and why we are who we are. I did NOT say “acknowledged” or “validated”….thats the next step. Affirmations are communications we give ourselves and others encouraging the attitudes they bring to life. Women bring variant traits to men, which is how Affirmation becomes so important. Both men and women need this.

   c.)Intellectual…… NOW we can talk about acknowledgement and validation since these are Cognitions and generally reflect on Outcomes relative to intentions. If emotion is regarding the persons “how and why”, Intellectual is validating the Way we are and how that brings good into our lives. Self-determination and autonomy, or independent thinking along with critical thinking are all indications a partner can hold their own and be a productive part of a bond and need to recognized for their qualities.

   d.)Spiritual……..and I am NOT talking about going to church, although…oddly….. that could be one aspect. Our Spiritual plane is the keeper of our Beliefs the way our Intellect is the keeper of our thoughts and our Emotional plane the keeper of our feelings. Using intuition we seek to accept those views or positions for which we have no Concrete facts. If we had facts we'd be using our Intellect. Sometimes we have to take things at face-value and risk…..kinda like a high-wire act without the net. Our intuition helps us reduce the risk by weighing the value of a position without any actual evidence.

   OK…..n ow I get down out of my pulpit.

   Mr OP, you have a partner who would probably understand what I have written above with no problem. You, on the other hand may be scratching your head. Thats OK….you have the rest of your life to figure it out.

   One Word of Advice:

   Until you figure out and accept that your partner is doing all the right things that you need to learn….at least do your best to be a gracious “receiver”, ok? Nothing kills good intentions faster than Ingratitude. FWIW.

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3. always believe the crap people say when drunk 28 is NOT the end of the clock, what the hell??!?! If you are referring to children…..lots of people have kids in their 30s, 40s and 50s and older. So don't come in here with the “i'm not 30 yet and the clock is ticking bullshit”

   The ONLY clock that is ending is the clock on this relationship.

   The only kid you have his him, and put his ass up for adoption baby! You don't need that.

   if he treated you great, you wouldn't be here. if he was sooo good to you, you wouldn't be here.

   I wouldn't bother talking to him, because he is going to deny it. he will gaslight you and call you crazy and will never own up to it. or will do the “ohh that's not what I meant” bullshit.

   Think about what you really want out of a convo with him. if he admits everything, then what? if he denies everything, then what?

   i wouldn't talk to him, and i sure wouldn't WASTE another minute on him

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