Before meeting my husband I had ZERO idea that I move/wiggle my feet and toes pretty much constantly. I did ballet and other forms of dance growing up and used to purposely flex and move my feet often and walk around on my tip toes, so it's not surprising to me that I move them around a lot without realizing it. But what did surprise me is after his pointing it ou mmt many times during the beginning of our relationship it became really obvious and at times annoying to myself that I do it. Now I will catch myself doing it every once in a while and get a bit frustrated that the moment I stop focusing on not doing it I will start up again. My sweet husband is so used to it now he's completely unbothered by it anymore, thankfully. I just don't know how/why so many past partners or family and friends never once pointed it out to me!
Why are you even having these private conversations with an old fling to the point where you’re wondering if you’re the father. I’m baffled by you people. The drama. What if you aren’t the dad and she’s trying to mess with you? Get a court order for paternity test. You guys are 40? Sheesh.
No I do not think she should go back. I’m much older and do not know if this is all considered normal now a days. Also I wanted to see what everyone thinks as far as Tiffany not allowing them to be married and leaving him alone. She filed after he told her he wouldn’t stop with Tiffany. She was young. He married her on her 18 birthday and I had no say. She now regrets it.
Exactly the same thing a girlfriend of mine did because of postpartum depression. She was a mess for about a year before treatment with antidepressants and therapy. It may not be true in OP's case but it is what happened to my friend. She self medicated with alcohol and blamed her husband about how bad she felt. He left her but got back with her after treatment.
Just asked if anyone was dating him and were their red flags or “tea” about him. I already suspected he was in a relationship since he would literally disappear every two days or disappear mid conversation and don’t reply until after two days later. I think he’s in a relationship and his gf prob suspected he was cheating and wanted to know if he was seeing anyone
Before meeting my husband I had ZERO idea that I move/wiggle my feet and toes pretty much constantly. I did ballet and other forms of dance growing up and used to purposely flex and move my feet often and walk around on my tip toes, so it's not surprising to me that I move them around a lot without realizing it. But what did surprise me is after his pointing it ou mmt many times during the beginning of our relationship it became really obvious and at times annoying to myself that I do it. Now I will catch myself doing it every once in a while and get a bit frustrated that the moment I stop focusing on not doing it I will start up again. My sweet husband is so used to it now he's completely unbothered by it anymore, thankfully. I just don't know how/why so many past partners or family and friends never once pointed it out to me!
Our brains are DEFINITELY weird!
Lol look into this ?
Why are you even having these private conversations with an old fling to the point where you’re wondering if you’re the father. I’m baffled by you people. The drama. What if you aren’t the dad and she’s trying to mess with you? Get a court order for paternity test. You guys are 40? Sheesh.
No I do not think she should go back. I’m much older and do not know if this is all considered normal now a days. Also I wanted to see what everyone thinks as far as Tiffany not allowing them to be married and leaving him alone. She filed after he told her he wouldn’t stop with Tiffany. She was young. He married her on her 18 birthday and I had no say. She now regrets it.
Exactly the same thing a girlfriend of mine did because of postpartum depression. She was a mess for about a year before treatment with antidepressants and therapy. It may not be true in OP's case but it is what happened to my friend. She self medicated with alcohol and blamed her husband about how bad she felt. He left her but got back with her after treatment.
Just asked if anyone was dating him and were their red flags or “tea” about him. I already suspected he was in a relationship since he would literally disappear every two days or disappear mid conversation and don’t reply until after two days later. I think he’s in a relationship and his gf prob suspected he was cheating and wanted to know if he was seeing anyone
Do you have no boundaries. She is doubting your honesty to believe someone else, and won't even tell you who the someone else is.
How about this for a boudnary, “I don't want to be in a relationship where my partner keeps things from me.”
Then end the relationship.