I guess if it was me and I felt I needed a last ditch effort to try to make him understand I would say
“Hey, this is really important and I need you to listen… I’m really happy you’re feeling great in your skin now. I know you have endured a lot in your past with bullying, but I feel like you have turned into the people who bullied you, and I just want to know why you would want to make someone feel horrible like you felt? These strangers did nothing to you and yet you are bleeding on people who didn’t cut you…”
Or something around those line… and if nothing clicks… I would leave…
That’s just my advice though, I’m sorry this happened.
Yeah that's not normal or ok. At all.
I guess if it was me and I felt I needed a last ditch effort to try to make him understand I would say
“Hey, this is really important and I need you to listen… I’m really happy you’re feeling great in your skin now. I know you have endured a lot in your past with bullying, but I feel like you have turned into the people who bullied you, and I just want to know why you would want to make someone feel horrible like you felt? These strangers did nothing to you and yet you are bleeding on people who didn’t cut you…”
Or something around those line… and if nothing clicks… I would leave…
That’s just my advice though, I’m sorry this happened.