For clarity: some of my family is a toxic mess, but I'm very close with my grandma and my siblings. I would live with my grandma at first and then get my own place ASAP.
If you’re in an intimate one on one monogamous relationship, it is not a healthy choice to have friends that you can date. If you read a few of these posts on Reddit, you will see the people cross boundaries all the time even when they swear with and without an oath, they don’t feel that way about the other person. Men and women are biologically prone to procreating. That’s a very basic thing. And you would think in our evolution that we could control it more but we don’t especially if you add alcohol or drugs into it.
So personally, I don’t believe that you should have datable friends when you’re in an intimate relationship. It is at least an emotional affair when you do that and takes all the intimacy and the joy out of the primary relationship you say you’re committed to you so you have a one person sexual relationship. It’s messy it’s not honest and it’s not intimate.
I’m sure my son wouldn’t mind but I guess I’ll find another solution
For clarity: some of my family is a toxic mess, but I'm very close with my grandma and my siblings. I would live with my grandma at first and then get my own place ASAP.
If you’re in an intimate one on one monogamous relationship, it is not a healthy choice to have friends that you can date. If you read a few of these posts on Reddit, you will see the people cross boundaries all the time even when they swear with and without an oath, they don’t feel that way about the other person. Men and women are biologically prone to procreating. That’s a very basic thing. And you would think in our evolution that we could control it more but we don’t especially if you add alcohol or drugs into it.
So personally, I don’t believe that you should have datable friends when you’re in an intimate relationship. It is at least an emotional affair when you do that and takes all the intimacy and the joy out of the primary relationship you say you’re committed to you so you have a one person sexual relationship. It’s messy it’s not honest and it’s not intimate.