I agree! Though part of me thinks it's not exactly his fault since his parents was rough with him and I feel like didn't teach him how to act. He's basically finding out how to act while being with me. At least that's how I look at it. I know he has had a very toxic first girlfriend, but I know he should learn how to act properly with someone he loves. He just treats almost everything as a joke it seems. Imo there's a time and a place for that.
I also have a history of people treating me like a robot- always invalidating my feelings. And he knows this. Or maybe it escaped his memory.
When he's upset about things I always listen and do my best to keep him happy but I just don't get that from him.. and he does treat me good it's just different for some reason when it comes to human (woman) feelings.
I agree! Though part of me thinks it's not exactly his fault since his parents was rough with him and I feel like didn't teach him how to act. He's basically finding out how to act while being with me. At least that's how I look at it. I know he has had a very toxic first girlfriend, but I know he should learn how to act properly with someone he loves. He just treats almost everything as a joke it seems. Imo there's a time and a place for that.
I also have a history of people treating me like a robot- always invalidating my feelings. And he knows this. Or maybe it escaped his memory.
When he's upset about things I always listen and do my best to keep him happy but I just don't get that from him.. and he does treat me good it's just different for some reason when it comes to human (woman) feelings.
Hopefully you'll learn a lot from this relationship, because no one is worth letting them walk over you.
Good traits are a dime a dozen, we vet our partners primarily against their negatives.