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First, think real very hot about what kind of a relationship you want, then go on the appropriate dating app. Spend some effort on your profile. Be selective. Date, think about the person. If the person doesn't seem right, don't call again. Keep looking. Talk to your family and friends about what you are doing, and the kind of person you are looking for. You don't have to just look on the apps. If you know the type of person you are looking for would go to church, go to church. If your person would be sober, get active in AA, and so forth. In other words, use your brain.
To a degree, he is taking his feelings about his last girlfriend isolating him out on you. He might not even really be aware that is what he is doing. It likely started with small choices at first and escalated.
It does sound like he is not in a place to be serious about a relationship with someone. He seems to be dealing with trauma from past abuse.
You are putting in far more effort for this relationship than he is. Right now, he has zero incentive to change. Match his efforts. Let him be the one to call first or to arrange a visit. If he doesn't escalate the amount of time and effort he puts into the relationship, then the relationship will fade naturally.
The primary problem here is incompatibility and YOUR entitlement. He's allowed to have his standards for people he dates including a potential partner's dating history. You don't meet them and so he tried to let you down easy, you felt entitled to push that and so he told you the truth. He didn't shame you and you being hurt by what he said doesn't mean he did anything wrong, you should've just respected his “no”.
I disagree, but even if you’re right, her current boyfriend is holding something she did 10 years ago. I think everyone would agree that a lot of growth and change happens from 14 to 24. Absolutely ridiculous for him to make this an issue in their relationship now.
Serve him with divorce papers and see what his reaction is….he has absolutely no respect for you and basically chose her over you
I know!! Like you would think I was plotting to kill this man or something. They’re trying to protect his manhood ?
If you are looking to charge the battery, take it out for a 20 minute ride. Never let a car run for any period indoors.
As to the other stuff I have no idea.
What a pile of bull-poo-poo.
He is a liar.
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You are better off without this abusive man.
Yeah how long ago was that? It’s not the same the last 5 years as it was when they came out.
As someone who just spent a year on them, it’s not bad advice.
Or spelling-savvy.
He wanted a hookup. You said no. That’s all he wanted plus the free hotel room.
No, it's not fair.
You cheated and lied, she cheated and lied. You're both awful.
But these… terms and conditions are ridiculous. You don't get to control everything because she had an affair.
Get therapy, and a divorce and figure out how to have a healthy relationship because this ain't it.
Speaking as someone who practices polyamory, we actually do have sex with other people. It's a pretty big part of our thing. We also date separately. I get along with my girlfriend's husband but I'm not required to date him, which is good because he's straight and I'm a man.
What you're describing sounds more like couple's therapy. That's a thing but they charge.
Fair enough. I only do that because I get fed up with how he withholds affection or communication with me. And he calls me stupid without calling my stupid, like making me doubt every little thing I do. I’m always afraid of saying the wrong thing around him because he gets so huffy and puffy if I call him out about himself. And plus, he used being broke as a justification for not following through with an agreement we made, so idk why he got so mad that I brought it back up.
So basically he agrees with his mom that you're trashy because you have tattoos, so he won't stand up for you. But you are just good enough to keep around for sex and to help pay the rent until it isn't convenient to have you around for that anymore and then he will go his own way and find a woman his mom can approve of or bully successfully.
I hate to break it to you, but your boyfriend's the one who isn't worth having around. Who wants a wishy-washy man like this who's tied to his mom's apron and is just an extension of her ego?
Financial control and abuse. She will be well off so why take his retirement? On the other hand she will earn more and that will be marital prop, so needs to see he is fully committed.
I’m in therapy and have been bringing this particular topic up for exploration, so aiming to unpack this via this route as well.
?♀️ I'm more British than both of you, you can stop arguing now ffs
Yeah, this doesn’t add up. She is living below the poverty line, he has investments that should be yielding far over six figures…sounds fake. If not, I actually think it’s a dick move to have such a glaring wealth disparity in a relationship.
Let her know. It will be a great relief for her so she doesn't have to worry about you finding out and breaking up with her. She probably worries about it every night.
So you have 24m and are asking Reddit for relationship advice? Lmao, ok.
This is comedy gold!
You don't. He's a pathological liar. STOP trying to re-arrange chairs on the Titanic, sis.
Go ahead and take the evidence to a divorce attorney and file for that divorce.
just save yourself the headache, she is not relationship material, she is ONS material
If you had a bidet then this is clean, the only issue should be if you don’t. In which case I bet the bathroom stinks
“I’ve given you fifteen years to get this together, and you’ve refused to. I’m done.”
Then leave. And find someone who values your sensibilities and senses and sex life enough to take a shower.
I have some sympathy for partners who work much more–they should get a break from choirs. But then they should bare much more of the financial burden. 300 dollars extra is absurd.
I work much more than my wife (and make much more) and she does essentially all of the housework. But then our money is treated as communal money. Everything I make is hers just as much as mine. We are team.
Sounds like he wants you to sacrifice for the team but then expects to keep the benefits of his extra work to himself. That isn't fair.
I would never call a gf my wife. I think k it is weird. If you don't like it, tell him.
Also, don't do all the housework. Split it with him.
Do you want to be miserable?
That is the only question you need to ask yourself.