He's paying you no attention and watching porn on his phone, so essentially he is just using you to masturbate. It shows how little respect he has for you. He keeps doing it despite your complaints and is gaslighting you into believing that it's normal. That'd be a dealbreaker for me.
I had something like this happen to me only once. My first boyfriend and I were having sex and he decided to check Twitter on his phone while we changed positions. I'll never forget how offended I was. I made sure that never happened again. At least we were still in our late teens at the time, your husband is 34! You're 29! Don't waste any more time with that loser.
Ive been with my wife for 15 years we smash 3-4 times a week
But why isn’t Jane buying one? Why is it OP’s responsibility to provide it?
Jane is way out of line demanding any property or money from OP and his ex.
I hope so everything turns out for the best, thank you
He's paying you no attention and watching porn on his phone, so essentially he is just using you to masturbate. It shows how little respect he has for you. He keeps doing it despite your complaints and is gaslighting you into believing that it's normal. That'd be a dealbreaker for me.
I had something like this happen to me only once. My first boyfriend and I were having sex and he decided to check Twitter on his phone while we changed positions. I'll never forget how offended I was. I made sure that never happened again. At least we were still in our late teens at the time, your husband is 34! You're 29! Don't waste any more time with that loser.