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  1. I… had considered it, but she had a boyfriend while we were friends and we did talk about not wanting that to come between us. I don’t think she thinks she’s the jealous type?

    And we both are bi, or at least bi-curious (I’ve had some flings with women but mostly date men, as far as I know her only relationship has been with a man) But there’s never been a time where we’ve expressed interest in one another. I understand why that may be the case though.

    I’ll say exactly what I posted and hopefully that’ll help smoothen things out!

  2. I don’t think they’re malicious, though I would guess they are stemming from a place of frustration towards your depression, and also just immaturity.

    Personally I would have a hot time spending time apart from a depressed girlfriend, but I think the independent way that you’re managing your depression may have lent something to create this dynamic. Perhaps he feels he cannot intrude? I’m also just making this stuff up, so I don’t know, but a routine of things for him to do with you when You’re depressed would be some id probably be interested in.

    Like curling up with you with a book and reading to you or making you tasty or colorful things. Obviously they’d have to be things you liked, and it would involve him being a part of your mental health routines which can be dangerous to disturb

  3. I mean if she adored like a brother why hasn’t she talked to him in 9 years, why didn’t she have his contact info?

  4. Honey, you are looking for magic words, and there are none.

    He knows. He understands. He fathoms. He comprehends. Any other synonym you'd like to find for “has he grasped this concept” and you can use it.

    He just doesn't care.

    He doesn't care that it distresses you, screws up your house, or causes you more work.

    He does not care.

    If this was just one area of housework – just cleaning or cooking or wood prep or laundry – or even two, you could outsource it and fix the problem like that, but with all of it?

    It exposes two drastically different but relationship ending problems.

    That you have differing standards for comfort and he is unwilling to voice his true viewpoint, so you can never find a compromise.

    And he disrespects you so much that not only will he not be truthful, he's willing to dump you with 95% of the work while swearing to your face that he'll handle his “share” (which is still less than half).

    This is who he is. He will not change. He may have sworn to you that he will, but his actions show he's lying, and you need to stop believing him.

    Given that you now know this is who he is you then have to make a decision; can you live! like this or do you need to leave? And I say need because I know what a massive impact living in squalor or working yourself to the bone to avoid said squalor can have on your health, mental or otherwise.

    I would like you to imagine for a minute that your friend had come to you with this predicament. That she told you about how she had worked herself to the bone for her bf's dream, despite the fact she wasn't all that interested in it, and as a result, has been left with doing all the work at home. About how her bf had sworn he would get better, multiple times, and then never lifted a finger. How she swore he was kind and considerate and lovely, yet she ends each day exhausted, depressed, unappreciated and years have gone by without her achieving so much as a clean house, never mind her dreams.

    Would you agree her bf is actually kind, considerate and lovely? Or would you tell her that he's using her and talks a good game only as long as he's getting what he wants? That if she put her foot down and decided she was cooking only for herself, working only on her own career and dreams and only bothering to handle her own laundry, he'd get pretty fucking angry and nasty, pretty fucking quickly?

    I think you know what you'd say to her.

    I think you know what you need to do. I think this post is one last plea to the universe to find a way of having to avoid facing the reality that the man you married, even if in isolation is a good man, is a shitty, shitty husband and you need to leave him. And all the pain and disruption and upset that comes with it.

    I'm really sorry. We can't fix your husband – no one can – but we can tell you that you are worth more than you are being treated as, and validate that you sound so very unhappy staying where you are.

    First practical step would be to visit a couple of local divorce lawyers. Don't listen to anyone on the Internet about what, where and how to go forward, laws vary hugely from region to region. Go see a couple of specialists – many offer free initial consults – and see what your options are.

    I'm sorry.

  5. You guys are definitely not sexually compatible and I am very curious as to how you ended up getting engaged to this person? The fact that you freaked out and stopped and wanted to go home and stuff when you went along to this club and then had suicidal thoughts -makes it pretty freaking clear that you are not as OK with this as you might be trying to convince yourself and it’s really not for you. I understand monogamy is not for everybody- but if you are just trying to go along with polyamory to please your partner you will be miserable for eternity. People who are monogamous have strong emotional ties to one person and people who are polyamorous do not. They can feel strongly about more than one person and you will drive yourself insane not being able to understand that. You will not be able to understand and you will not be OK with your girlfriend being able to sleep with a bunch of other people but telling you that she only loves you. And I feel like the reason she might be doing it is because you brought it up first and she’s trying to please you and dive into it and be the perfect woman because so often girls who will have threesomes are looked at as being cooler and shit.

  6. Yes. He used to roll is eyes at her self-harm. Like: why are you being so dumb?

    Having a child who self harms is distressing and people deal with it in many ways. Positive coping/negative coping. This is a whole new topic.

    But he was just embarrassed, instead of offering anything to her.

  7. I’m 52, just older than Mark. I am so tired of seeing people like him use the same old excuses to be mean and cruel. He just wants to repeat the same old thing because he doesn’t want to do the work to be a better person or father. Mark is financially rich but dirt poor in character.

    I am glad that you helped Sarah when her own father wouldn’t. He is being toxic to her well-being. You have been in her corner. You’ve given her love and shelter from her father.

  8. Depending on the context. I might be like “oh hey, that looks kind of like a rug we had!” because I'm the type of person who will literally call out to someone if they have the same polka dot golf umbrella as me.

    And if they do that, just laugh and say “oh really? Haha!”

  9. My moms been a therapist longer than I’ve been alive and she’s never had a personal relationship with a client. She’s had kids reach out as adults and she’s said hi but never continued the conversation or had a friendship with them.

    That also just sounds very sketchy

  10. Yeh yeh i came to the same conclusion basically , she's drama queen we had a chat everything was about her , she was so nice those first days but that's how they hook us up and now she's trying to subdue me if that makes sense

  11. At some point it isn’t all about what he needs… you are doing what is best for you now… stay focused and find your own happiness…

  12. Not just that, but full on internalised like

    “It's my fault, I drive him into frustration because I'm kind of stupid and have these unreasonable idiotic opinions, he just got a bit agitated because I struggled to understand, anyone would have reacted like that”

  13. girl leave you are obviously not ready or stable enough for a relationship this serious and he doesnt look that charming. name calling and violence is a no-no. cheating is a no-no. just leave, cut him off for his and your own good, and heal.

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