You should probably find some sort of therapy to deal with your abandonment issues. I understand the sentiment, but your father has time and time again shown himself to be, not the best parental figure, between the closested homophobia, the lack of wanting to fight to be anything more then a passing presence in your life, and general red flags such as drug addiction, and other issues. Will he run off with this other woman and ignore your existence again outside of a yearly bday text. Most possibley, but we can't control how people treat us just how we react. I'd suggest focusing on your own goals and make as much effort towards your dad as he does you. I'd also find a therapist or counselor who will provide you someone to talk to, and provide coping mechanisms and understanding, I can easily see these issues you have fester into some unhealthy issues further down the line as you start dating seriously if you haven't already.
Why did you have to quit your job? Could you not have called in sick for a few days?
Violence is never the solution. If my partner hurt me I would leave as well.
Sounds like you should back of for a few days and talk to a therapist. You seem very dramatic but do not seem to understand the gravity of a fight turning physical, it's not nonsense, it's very concerning.
“He’s not very good at consoling me”
I think you meant: “he’s not an understanding man and makes no attempt to make my feelings important” I’m truly sorry for that.
You should probably find some sort of therapy to deal with your abandonment issues. I understand the sentiment, but your father has time and time again shown himself to be, not the best parental figure, between the closested homophobia, the lack of wanting to fight to be anything more then a passing presence in your life, and general red flags such as drug addiction, and other issues. Will he run off with this other woman and ignore your existence again outside of a yearly bday text. Most possibley, but we can't control how people treat us just how we react. I'd suggest focusing on your own goals and make as much effort towards your dad as he does you. I'd also find a therapist or counselor who will provide you someone to talk to, and provide coping mechanisms and understanding, I can easily see these issues you have fester into some unhealthy issues further down the line as you start dating seriously if you haven't already.
This guy is a psychopath.
Why did you have to quit your job? Could you not have called in sick for a few days?
Violence is never the solution. If my partner hurt me I would leave as well.
Sounds like you should back of for a few days and talk to a therapist. You seem very dramatic but do not seem to understand the gravity of a fight turning physical, it's not nonsense, it's very concerning.
If you don't know her name, then she is not your gf. Easy.
Please tell me you are not sending her money.