You gotta respect some things when you love someone. Some things mean more to you than it means to him and this obviously means a whole lot to him.
Ask him to explain but do not say no in the end. He’s giving you a free pass to make any request. This is life. We humans are complex but we support each others vulnerabilities.
My experience. I’m just married ten years. It’s not much but relationships are meant to keep alive through love and love involves sacrifice especially when it’s a big deal for someone.
If something ACTUALLY matters for you regarding this topic, then negotiate those aspects but respect peoples boundaries.
This is a power trip and he's even testing the teenagers boundaries. Yuck.
You gotta respect some things when you love someone. Some things mean more to you than it means to him and this obviously means a whole lot to him.
Ask him to explain but do not say no in the end. He’s giving you a free pass to make any request. This is life. We humans are complex but we support each others vulnerabilities.
My experience. I’m just married ten years. It’s not much but relationships are meant to keep alive through love and love involves sacrifice especially when it’s a big deal for someone.
If something ACTUALLY matters for you regarding this topic, then negotiate those aspects but respect peoples boundaries.