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Sit down and talk with him.
I was wondering the same. More expensive back east, and if he gave his home, why can't they split custody? Also, how does the GF feel about this? Lots to unpack here.
Sounds like postpartum depression, invest in counselling now & be patient for at least a year brother
Have you ever heard of groupthink? I feel like that is what's happening here. Like maybe people saw what a few others said and thought that was good advice? I'm a dating abuse prevention advocate. It's baffling to me that people are assessing your actions this way, OP.
First, it doesn't take a rocket scientist of a boyfriend to understand that you were very upset. He didn't comfort you and then pressured you for sex. That's kinda 'how not to be a douche 101.” Add that he knew you were upset about sexual trauma…I'm speechless.
We should really ask questions before making judgments. Asking if you're already in therapy is an important one. Asking what you were upset about and if he knew what it was it is important. Saying you shouldn't be in a relationship until you learn to say no is wrong.
You do need to communicate better. But when you have as much sexual trauma as you (and I and so many victims) do, you are not asking too much of your boyfriend to be sensitive to that and not pressure you for sex during those vulnerable times. I think people are giving him no credit for being at least a moderately intelligent human being. It's not his job to heal you but he knows what you've been through and he's chosen a relationship with you. Part of that relationship is to be aware of how you're feeling.
When I work with teens, I show them a video called “Consent and Tea.” It explains consent in very easy to understand ways. I would also recommend RAINN. You can find really good info there about consent. Maybe when you're feeling strong and it's a peaceful time you could talk to him about it. Or maybe even email it because it can be so nude to talk about our needs when he have sexual trauma because we've quite literally been told we don't deserve to have needs. So writing it down then letting him read it may allow you to have a stronger voice and maybe him to save face about not being as tuned in as anyone should be.
Victim blaming is still very much alive and well so please don't take all of what people are saying here to heart. People often don't understand that they're even victim blaming. You (and your boyfriend) deserve a healthy relationship. ??
So with that being said, why couldn't OP show her boyfriend instead?
Red flag. Seems like gaslighting. You saw what you saw. All the time people say “I never thought they’d cheat on me”. People do though. Her reaction is telling.
In my opinion the next step would depend on how far along the relationship is. Proceed with caution if you stay.
As a monogamous woman I would never say something like that, I think the wanting to kiss him went too far.
Well you’ll know that you were roofied, but you won’t know what happened when you were passed out. If this comes back positive, you need to get away from this person. If you want to be even happier, you should cool it on the drinking.
That sounds like good ideas thank you
Honestly…and this why I made the distinction clear…..
if her abilities to negotiate boundaries is somehow compromised
and you must resort to actual Rules it is very often better that those
rules be put in place and “enforced” by someone-not-you.
Maybe a volunteer or a professional care-giver but not you.
You need to reserve yourself as a kind of compatriot to help
sooth and provide assurance. Just sayin……
What the fuck are you even talking about
Penis in vagina isn’t the only kind of sex you could be having.
Why won't she tell you and why are you not properly clarifying?
Would she prefer you working?
I comprehend it completely, I have not said that it is not a Illegal what he did, I just pointed out to OP that it wasn’t Revenge porn.
If OP wants to take this to the police for them to file charges, if she asks them to charge him with revenge porn, they will not do so as it doesn’t meet the requirements under the law.
If OP wants to go private through the courts, she may find a lawyer to do it, but a semi decent defence attorney will get it thrown out because it doesn’t meet the definition required under the law.
OP needs to find out what laws he broke so she can succeed in whatever charges she wants to bring forward.
Why do you need to know that? If he wanted to be with you he had a chance and he would have took it. People usually don't just let things go away if they really want that. so let it go and if you want a relationship with a guy be upfront about it start it of good.
It is indirect though. A direct approach would be if she walked up and said “Hey this smells good, I see you are using Thyme, have you thought about adding Sage?” That 1. Let's him know what her opinion is and 2. Gives him an opening for countering and giving a good reason for him to include Thyme. Now he's able to answer the question for himself rather than her divine his own reasoning by asking a bunch of indirect questions then deciding from there how important adding Thyme is to him.
My whole family communicates like OP, and my Grandmas are both like OP's wife and it is infuriating to the rest of us and sometimes devolves into full blown shouting matches or passive aggressive standoffs because they just assume so much shit about us based on answers to different questions and they are incapable of voicing their own needs/wants. For my Grandmas it comes from being raised in high society in the 50's where women having opinions was considered rude.
you’re nothing but a booty call
I don't think you're being fair here. OP is much more than a booty call. She's also a wallet.
He wants to get married and then delay until you are ‘less selfish and childish’. ?
He thinks his need to procreate is more important than your physical health. ?
He thinks you should be just fine with him banging other women AND essentially abandoning them once they get pregnant. ?
He lost his shit when you said no. ?
His friends and family are trying to state that you need to have kids (misogynistic bs ) ?
No one ‘needs children’. They aren’t a damn accessory or ego booster either.
Get you personal birth control in order, preferably something he can’t tamper with.
Get your ass out asap and find someone who sees you as more than his personal womb.
Someone: explains how they feel from their own experience
You: no that’s actually not how you feel
?
That’s not true. I’m not an aggressive person. In fact one of the reasons she left her ex was because he got physical with her.
Not controlling IMO, I too would not like someone that I’m exclusive with to sleep with others, regardless of their gender.
leave him on the spot.
nobody talk about open relationship out of the blue. he already have a target. and he possibly already cheat on you.
call a lawyer because of the kids.
You have every right to choose what you like and don’t like. He has every right to decide whether he can live without it. It’s the same conversation for couples who dispute over anal.
You two aren’t sexually compatible. So that’s it.
Polyamory is not a sexuality. She could choose to be monogamous; she doesn't want to be. You're not compatible. If she is out with him knowing you're uncomfortable with it, she is cheating. Save yourself the drama and heartache and just end it.
I suggested he goes to therapy. He said that his mom helps him through his issues when he talks to her (she’s in Korea so she’s not here). I told him that his mom is so lovely and sweet but he needs more help than just talking to his mom
it’s selfish for me to want to go on vacation during spring break?
no it's not. The selfish part was not planning you vacation with your SO and making plans that you would both enjoy and could do together especially when you said you guys barely saw each other
absolutely the fuck not to whatever this is. your dad needs psychiatric help.
1) You dont trust him 2) You feel the need to play detective to “prove” he is cheating
If you find proof that he is cheating, you will most likely want to split up.
If you can't prove he is cheating, you still distrust him, so you should split up
Why work so nude to stay with someone who you don't trust?
He sent it from your phone so it looks like you consented to the video and sent it to him yourself. I wouldn’t trust him ever again and this might not be the first time he’s recorded you without consent.
Well, all you can do at this point is shoot your shot. I fear you may have to break silence norms in the library, and I would also assume someone this pretty may get approached somewhat often and may already be seeing someone. I would start casual and start a conversation over a common interest, but not being up one from the past (ie, I saw you drawing that album cover last week)… just wait until there's something else. She will be able to tell that you were extremely sexually attracted to her at first site, so I really emphasize to not come on too strong. Just gauge her reaction to casual conversation.
It doesn't sound like either of you are ready for a relationship.
So here’s what you do: if any of this is in text or chat form or any form you have solid proof of: find out his unit. Google his patch if you have to. Find his chain of command on post. Find any one that’s in charge of him. Email them the proof. And watch his military career go down the toilet. ~hopefully at least~ He’s a dangerous person and shouldn’t be allowed in authority positions or near a weapon. Or near people. Eat him the fuck out to his leaders
I suppose what I mean is that it wasn't what either of us wanted or needed outside of that moment. It was accidental in the sense that it wasn't supposed to happen, it just did, like it does sometimes in life. Idk how else to word it. It was a mistake.
I suppose what I mean is that it wasn't what either of us wanted or needed outside of that moment. It was accidental in the sense that it wasn't supposed to happen, it just did, like it does sometimes in life. Idk how else to word it. It was a mistake.