Marriages aren’t about each person putting in 50/50. Relationships work because each person puts in 100% effort. Besides, your husbands portion of money isn’t equal to half— it’s far less than what you make so his logic is not logical. He sounds manipulative if you couldn’t feel open at the time to speak up to his nonsense and are waiting to bring it up so you don’t cause an argument.
When we started dating, he seemed to hold all the same beliefs about the world that I did, same political views, etc. But it turns out he was just agreeing with everything I was saying, throwing in the right buzzwords to convince me he felt the same way before he met me, and he hadn't even heard of half of it before.
Honestly, this is 90% of people.
What do I believe in? The good things. Whatever the good things are. Yeah, those things. Those are the good things? Yeah, all those things. Sounds good.
Dating someone that is in school that doesn't make that much income should have told you something before you started dating.
You flashed money by paying for everything right from the start and she liked that. Now that time has come, your feeling the pain for your starting this relationship.
You either keep doing it, or just talk to her like a man. Say something like hey, can you buy groceries this week, I have been paying for everything and you have been saving, SO MUCH MONEY.. If she balks at it, then she is only in it for the free meals and gifts. She is only using you for said money.
Best case, he's negging you. Worst case, he's an abuser-in-waiting.
Girl, run.
Marriages aren’t about each person putting in 50/50. Relationships work because each person puts in 100% effort. Besides, your husbands portion of money isn’t equal to half— it’s far less than what you make so his logic is not logical. He sounds manipulative if you couldn’t feel open at the time to speak up to his nonsense and are waiting to bring it up so you don’t cause an argument.
When we started dating, he seemed to hold all the same beliefs about the world that I did, same political views, etc. But it turns out he was just agreeing with everything I was saying, throwing in the right buzzwords to convince me he felt the same way before he met me, and he hadn't even heard of half of it before.
Honestly, this is 90% of people.
What do I believe in? The good things. Whatever the good things are. Yeah, those things. Those are the good things? Yeah, all those things. Sounds good.
OP,
Dating someone that is in school that doesn't make that much income should have told you something before you started dating.
You flashed money by paying for everything right from the start and she liked that. Now that time has come, your feeling the pain for your starting this relationship.
You either keep doing it, or just talk to her like a man. Say something like hey, can you buy groceries this week, I have been paying for everything and you have been saving, SO MUCH MONEY.. If she balks at it, then she is only in it for the free meals and gifts. She is only using you for said money.