ppl who act like that don’t get morning texts. block him and call the police. i’m an advocate for mental health but not when it’s being used to manipulate a partner. he’s not actually suicidal, he’s trying to break you.
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Agree with all of this, also, I can easily imagine giving a numb, checked-out “go for it” with the obvious unspoken understanding that it would be near sociopathic to even consider still wanting to go for it after seeing how much the idea devastated OP!
My brother's ex-gf tried to pull that on him too, to prevent him from leaving her (that, and calling 100-200 times a day, leaving all sort of verbally abusive text messages and voice mails).
She also threatened similar thing, and where we're at, we have this thing called 'welfare check.' So when she threatened to…do that, my brother just called the police to do a welfare check on her. He also kept all the communications and voice mails, just in case, since she did try to do a false report on him to the police before.
After awhile, he just blocked her (it didn't matter b/c she would jump to another number and kept calling). Oh the cherry on top, after all the manipulation and harassment didn't work, she actually threatened to harm my brother (to the point of permanently gone from the world), and then we did have to get a restraining order against her and he even moved out of state.
ppl who act like that don’t get morning texts. block him and call the police. i’m an advocate for mental health but not when it’s being used to manipulate a partner. he’s not actually suicidal, he’s trying to break you.
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Youre right, ive never fucked up this bad
Agree with all of this, also, I can easily imagine giving a numb, checked-out “go for it” with the obvious unspoken understanding that it would be near sociopathic to even consider still wanting to go for it after seeing how much the idea devastated OP!
She's just manipulating you.
My brother's ex-gf tried to pull that on him too, to prevent him from leaving her (that, and calling 100-200 times a day, leaving all sort of verbally abusive text messages and voice mails).
She also threatened similar thing, and where we're at, we have this thing called 'welfare check.' So when she threatened to…do that, my brother just called the police to do a welfare check on her. He also kept all the communications and voice mails, just in case, since she did try to do a false report on him to the police before.
After awhile, he just blocked her (it didn't matter b/c she would jump to another number and kept calling). Oh the cherry on top, after all the manipulation and harassment didn't work, she actually threatened to harm my brother (to the point of permanently gone from the world), and then we did have to get a restraining order against her and he even moved out of state.