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Does any of this sound healthy to you?
Like if someone you cared for you and told you all this would you think, well that's a relationship worth saving?
All of these are valid questions. Every detail op mentioned sounds suffocating to me
I'm 36 and I go biking with a 15 year old and a 51 year old. The 15 year olds mum drives us up the mountain and we bike down.
Nothing wrong with platonic friendships of any age.
If it's not platonic however it is beyond F'd up
Im sorry for this abuse.
Consider therapy!
Your 19 with not a lot of life experience he’s someone who can still manipulate you even though your at a legal age. Considering your having mental issues it’s best to avoid a netting at all costs.
Here's 2 cents from a smoker of 5 years that's been struggling to quit. My Fiance HATES it and I really really want to quit and have tried to quit many many times.
Quitting can be miserable and withdrawal symptoms suck for everyone around them. Either he quits Cold Turkey and you be as supportive as possible or you try to get him to switch to vape, patches, or pouches.
This time I'm back to pouches. I guarantee he feels guilty about it, and jonesing for a cigarette can make a man do stupid things like lie about it.
Smoking is disgusting, but you gotta understand that he's chemically dependent on nicotine and that's not an easy thing.
I'm indulging in stereotype here, but men tend to say what they mean, women tend to speak in signals and leave things hinted at but unsaid. Very common rift I see in relationships is the difference in how men and women communicate things. To the OP: we men say that we just want a casual relationship when we just want a casual relationship. Sex, some fun dates, hanging out, but no kids or mingling of finances or all the other complexities of a long-term relationship.
at least pick a different hotel..
Is it even up to him if it's a family trip?
No I don’t have any nudes on my phone and I don’t take pictures of myself like that because I don’t trust people.
Go get therapy you are looking for an echo chamber to tell you how awful the man was. But every post exposes you worse!
Yeah, we definitely ended things during the honeymoon phase. With my fiancee though, we built a strong foundation since we met in my hometown and dated for a year and a half before she had to move back. I don't want to end things with her, I love her and see myself building a future with her. I just have these pent up feelings about my ex that I guess I didn't process before.
He’s gonna deflect, blame, and probably gaslight her
Honestly, I'm guessing she's hoping you aren't the dad with your horrific history of flaky behavior. If you had to submit a CV to women before they accepted you as father material you'd be rejected every time.
You need to do alot of work to learn to consider the emotions of your partner before you try to be one a dad again, right now, you aren't up to the job description.
Why do you still refer to her as your girlfriend? Kick her out, cut her off, never think of her again. There literally is no other answer here.
Your wife had no interest in you until you reverted to the man she fell in love with! The talking to the new lady shows her she is completely disposable when she expected you to continue pining after her! The only thing you are responsible for is allowing yourself to turn into the man she thought she wanted from the man she chose! I think that it is too late to remain in this entanglement! She has repeatedly messed up and been able to avoid serious consequences. But she is finally being shown the fruits of her labour. Unfortunately for her they are as bitter as she is. Keep doing what you are doing move out keep working your way back to who you really are and you should really lose the dead weight. She chose the greener grass let her have it.
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$60 it wasn’t expensive just the thought behind it.
You're obviously incompatible. Being together with him makes no sense for either of you.
Open relationships take work and go both ways (how does he feel about YOU hooking up with other guys? Women often do better at dinging partners)
Bet the result would be him being annoyed you didn’t sit at home faithful to him and wait out his ‘experience’ ?
It’s ok to want different things, especially as you are both at an age where it is all about figuring it out and forging your own path. Maybe it’s time for those paths to diverge.
My cat does not want the popcorn. She likes it fresh. She wants to eat the husks.
We have to ward her off the counter when we're doing corn for dinner cuz she just goes up there to munch on the leafs.
At this point you need to be focused on gathering evidence for the divorce and not giving him any ammo. Anything else you do is self destructive, no matter how unfair it feels.
This is so weird. How long have you lived together? It sounds like she was the one to move in. Most likely she follows her typical bathroom behavior. How did she deal w this in her own ?
Do an experiment, go “out of town” on an impromptu family “emergency” trip for 3-4 days. See what you come back to. If she clogs it again, she’ll have to find a solution. Either by doing it herself or by calling a plumber.
We both are
Please explain where I said I’m using her for my benefit
Has your boyfriend came back home or did he move out?
I don’t think it’s relative to much, they’re both really young. In fact, I’d say really really young
Bro this some if the most selfish shit I’ve seen in awhile stop wasting this women time and get it over with
I’d rethink this relationship. Where do you see it heading? She’s not trained her dog, it’s been a problem she’s never addressed even though he’s fully mature and you think she’s waiting out the last two years of it’s life for peace. Meanwhile, you’re scared and uncomfortable and have no freedom inside her home.
I just fundamentally have issues with people having aggressive dogs and ignoring it. It’s unfair to the general public and ultimately the dog. You have to pee or get a glass of water in the middle of the night and get bitten. Dog gets punished, possibly put down. It could be avoided with training/socialization.
I have a Doberman. She’ll bark and guard if you’re outside the house, fence, or backyard because that’s her instinct and directive, but she is trained to know that if I invite someone in the house that they’re ok and she generally ignores them and lays in her kennel mostly in her bedroom. She’s not super social with anyone but me but she reverts to being meek when you’re in her space and I’m relaxed. If you’re a repeat visitor she’ll come check you out from a distance, but my mom has only been able to pet her twice. She just is disinterested in non threatening people that aren’t me. She doesn’t have any aggression, she just has no desire to be in your orbit. But knowing she’d be very large I trained her from the day I got her at 8 weeks.
As a dog (four big ones right now) and horse (one now) owner I see the way people treat and train their pets as a very important facet of their personality. Her not training the dog, not addressing the aggression, not kenneling or crating the dog, and letting you be uncomfortable when her fix is to hide in her room with you tells me she’s not particularly responsible and not holding herself accountable for her actions.
Thank you so much, for next time i'll remember that and i won't go into much detail. i feel like i probably won't bring up anything work related anymore. maybe it was too much
Why are you so insecure to think she'll be remembering her exes specifically?
She might remember herself being happy at certain points of her life.
No, current relationship doesn't erase the past.
No, your dick is not a solution to all the problems and people are allowed to reminisce.
Keep this up and you'll be that – just a memory.
He has said that he wants it still but wants to make sure he's ready to commit and then he's also said that he doesn't want it to affect our friendship if it doesn't work out. I get this feeling that he's still hiding something but I'm not sure
When I told him that I feel like he doesn't ask about me as much or say I love you first; he told me that it made him feel like he's not enough.
Even though I had chosen my words very gently and said that it's not about him but it's about what I need and how I want to be loved.
I agree this is concerning, particularly with the further context you've added in your comments.
It absolutely makes zero sense to say you have met his dad but he doesn't want you to go to his house because he cares for his unwell Dad.
If I was you, my next move would be inviting myself over to his place.
Don’t. Get a new bae. You’re about to be ballin. Focus on your career.
“Honey, would you bear with me a minute? I want to about getting your scar revised. I know you’ve moved on from the attack and are only thinking about our future.
But, I’m ashamed to say that sometimes, when I notice it, it takes me right back to that awful day and my fears of losing you and my ongoing guilt about not protecting you. (This would be a good time to cry).
It’s absolutely your body and your choice, but it would mean so much to me if you would at least let me fix that one thing for you.
I know that you are going to be the world’s best mom, and you don’t want to spend money on this instead of our kids. But I do. I need to. As a man.
Would you please allow me to figure out the cost and get the money together? I feel that’s my job as your husband and I can’t bear to think I’ve failed at being your husband before I can even be a father.”
OOOOOOK!!! Got that out, took clothespin off my nose. I’m making a huge assumption that bc she married you, she’s on board with some light chauvinism. If you know this would make her hurl, don’t.
Btw, I doubt anyone is slicing into her face without general anesthesia, which might not be great for the baby. That gives you FIVE MONTHS to raise the cash for this event. I’d suggest any job that makes you feel like a man.
Also think you should sell something important to you, like maybe a kidney, as your own internal penance for disrespecting this fucking warrior angel you don’t deserve to be married to.
This …..
I don't mind my husband going to strip clubs to watch, but no touching, no lap dances and no private rooms.
Boundaries are set, and if he crosses he knows what he loses.
Why are you so defensive of OP? I'm not saying he's the main one at fault here, just that he's not totally blameless either.
When you're depressed you can't help but be dead weight sometimes, normal life becomes unreasonably hot. The wife is the problem, but really it's her condition.
I don't know, we might just be looping at this point.
Good to hear that.
One thing I've learned is that being right doesn't justify doing something wrong in the pursuit of righteousness.
First of all, you don't actually truly know if you are right (“yes I do”). No you don't.
Second, some real horrors have been justified because the person/people thought they were being righteous in their goals. No, it is not justified.
You aren't what you believe, you aren't what you think. You are what you do. That's all that matters.
So good for you on disconnecting from the madness, it's not worth it.
Dating someone that insecure will ruin your life because you will be made to feel guilty even if you've done nothing wrong. I'm serious.
Okay, so everyone seems to be shocked by this, but I have some experience. I worked at a foster/group home for teenage boys. We had to do room checks for contraband and cleaning as last resort when the bedrooms got too far – despite trying to get the kids to clean.
There was one young man who had not one, not two, not half a dozen, but 10+ containers – cups, bottles etc. Hidden away in his room. All full of piss, that I had to remove and clean. Super smart, funny kid, but definitely had a lot of underlying stuff to work through.
I hear you. It's beyond disgusting. However, it's not a stretch to think your husband is severely struggling right now if this is what he's doing. I hope if you love this man you are able to set your very reasonable standards and still support him through what he is going through.
This made me gag.
The point is that it doesn't sound like they cared to ask her if there were any way that she could get the day off, or if there were a certain period in the day that she could make it. They completely wrote her off.
From a family that doesn't seem to care about how OP feels about her ex being invited to her family's get-together with his new wife……………this is not surprising.
if you can ever lay hands on one another, you’ve never been “that” couple. your ex is right, you two don’t belong together and it’s not healthy to keep it going. it’s one thing to have your first huge fight and make mistakes and use them to learn and grow from it, and it is a whole other thing to become physical with each other. there’s no coming back from that.
I don’t know what else to say other than it is just so mean for her to do this
Your best revenge is to dump her. She will want to get with him, the GF will eventually find out and the whole thing will turn to crap. Walk away.
thank you, Drill Sgt from Full Metal Jacket.
His wife just found out, and shit is about to go off. She's only telling you now so she can get ahead of this, and she's trying to minimize the damage by claiming it only happened once. How disgusting. You're sleeping with the enemy.
No
Then what’s the problem?
Maybe start by doing away with the child support since you make “really good money” but as basically everyone else said, you don’t deserve him. Never did and you should leave the man alone. You ruined his life once because you couldn’t set healthy boundaries. No amount of money or therapy is going to make up for that. Ever.
Since everyone else is stating the obvious in that your gf has issues and is making this situation sexual when it's not, etc. I'll go out on a limb and ask if anyone thinks it's a possibility that she was sexually abused as a child in a similar manner and this is triggering her?
Lol it's actually really sad
She isn’t behaving like she’s 15. She is behaving like she just found out her fiancé is “grooming” (for lack of a better term) her young cousin behind her back and for shady reasons. If his intentions were pure he should’ve:
1) talked to his fiancée about what he perceives as her favoring one cousin 2) if that doesn’t solve it then ask if she would be okay with him trying to be there for her
But no, he was acting as if he was her “secret” friend.
I agree he should give up because nobody including his fiancée is buying what he’s selling.
It means ”he showed me nothing but love and affection”
That’s the difference between a supportive parent and a toxic one. Supportive parents won’t tear you down, they will build you up. Comparing you to others from hearsay, gossip and social media is how she is trying to control you. She is possibly even embellishing or faking some of the stories in order to manipulate you. Just remember that unless you have seen it for yourself or there is supporting evidence, you don’t know how true something is and even then, it isn’t your own experience but someone else’s and so not indicative of how your own story will play out. If anything, use others’ experiences as a learning opportunity and see how to avoid making similar mistakes. Prove her wrong.
The next time she compares you to someone, or says you don’t know how to do something, say “Thank you for your opinion” and then walk away. Practice in the mirror if you need to. You don’t want to engage her in an argument but by staying neutral and leaving the room after, she will see she isn’t getting the response she is after.
Moving out is in your best interest, even if you struggle. You’ve said yourself she is unsupportive of mental health issues and she just seems like the most toxic person you could be around. If you sway in your decision now and change your mind, to her it’s just confirming her opinions and reinforces her beliefs. It sounds like she wants you to fail and wants you to never try.
You’ve got this OP ? you’re stronger than you realise and you will be so much happier away from all the manipulation and emotional abuse she is inflicting on you.
You're a 19-year-old woman spooning your dad at night. If you don't see something weird with that, I can't explain it to you.
But I will say, pretty much everyone you meet is going to feel like that's creepy and bordering on sexual, just like your boyfriend.
Get a paternity test immediately. Then go to the doctor and get an STI test.
Sounds like you're scared of getting her pregnant. That's a reasonable concern, but there are ways to help prevent it. You only talk about the birth control she's using. How about using condoms?
This is so sad. You are so sad. Listen up: your daughter asked you for advice. She wanted YOUR advice. Your husband was sitting next to you. If she wanted his advice, she would have asked him.
Also, your daughter asked you to stop bringing him to your visits. What do you do? You LISTEN to her and STOP bringing him. It's that simple. She probably never liked but made an effort for you. Now she's telling you that it's your turn to make an effort for her. It's also time for some introspection for you and your husband to figure out each's role into to what led to this situation. You seem to think it's you daughter that has a problem when really it's yall's behavior that led to this
My wife and I started out long distance. What helped us is to always have a video call on in our home, 24/7. It feels much more like your partner is actually with you when they can just speak or see you whenever you're home, rather than having to call and have you answer.
On getting the vaccine?
In case the person you’re responding to doesn’t respond or see this for a while: I’m a peds ER nurse, worked in a pediatricians office, and am studying to become a family nurse practitioner. Every physician and advanced practice provider – pediatric or otherwise – recommends your child get the Covid vaccine as soon as they are able.
Honestly I think you need to cut this girl out of your life. She is having fun with you when she wants but not taking your feelings into consideration. She never going to be your gf and you need to accept that. I know it’s hot, we’ve all been there, but carrying on with that hope and believe will bring you more hurt
My dude trust me, I get it.
If you think you can move past it, why not stick it out? If not, might be time to hit the dusty trail
Big life goals need to be compatible or you two will end up miserable and resentful.
How can she be 99% perfect when your life goals are so far apart? That just tells me you two are way too immature and think love will fix everything and is enough and this is just a little blip.
It’s not a little 1% blip or struggle in a perfect relationship. It’s like a 100% big bump and disaster in your relationship.
I was thinking the same thing. Miserable and full of hate.
Would it be reasonable for me to stick through it but just take everything regarding her with a grain of salt until we have an exclusivity talk
Good to know, I didn't realize that.
I guess the only way to “opt out” is if the mother never files for child support. Then there's no reason the courts/state would know about it in the first place.
Dude you don’t have an obligation to stay. It would be entirely unfair because you’re a straight male. If you became a girl I bet she wouldn’t have been down (past tense since she was a girl before.. still getting the wording right lol).
Perhaps the best course is to call off or postpone the wedding and remain very close friends? Idk man that’s such a tough one. Can’t imagine the conflict in your head right now.
I mean yeah in this regard its not good. I like her and alot of things but she just always counters or angles against anything pro my family.
If shes good enough to impregnate she should be good enough to wed, ideally beforehand.
When did Valentine’s Day become “the man in the relationship plans everything and does everything day”?
If he asked you to save the date then maybe he should’ve done something better. But how do you know he didn’t get you a nice gift that he was planning to bring over? How do you know he wasn’t bringing flowers? Or that he just used pizza as an excuse and was going to cook for you?
On top of that, it doesn’t sound like you did ANYTHING for him either. Why are you the only one that deserves effort on Valentine’s Day? Did you bake anything? Buy a gift? Write a cute little note?
I doubt it because I’m sure you would’ve mentioned.
I don’t think Valentine’s Day comes with expectations. Especially when you’ve only been exclusively dating for a few weeks. And all the people that say he should’ve known better….. then so should you. And you should’ve also done something for him on Valentine’s Day.
Have a convo with him and let him know that valentines day is meaningful to you. And you’d like some kind of special planning next year.
Not everyone gives a shit about valentines day. It’s a new relationship. He’s not a mind reader.
Break up with him…
I think you’re grossly misinterpreting your relationship with this guy. Honestly I would probably never talk to him again even if he was genuinely oblivious to the social cues. Can’t be around someone that stupid.
She’s an adult ?♂️
Because she doesn't tell me them. She just looks at me like a deer in headlights.
For me what would kill the relationship wouldn't be the fact that he wanted to revisit the idea of giving/getting blowjobs, but it would be the fact that he walked in the door and, right off the rip, started demanding them. It shows an incredible lack of respect for your opinion and boundary, as well as a sense of entitlement. That would seriously kill (or at least heavily injure) and feelings I had for him.
Personally I would text back with this:
“You are 32 years old and you are capable of making your own decisions; whether your friends convinced you that you should be getting them or not is irrelevant, YOU chose to come home demanding that I 'get over it' and give you BJ's despite the fact that you know damn well why I don't like giving them. You didn't even try to have a civil discussion about it with me, you came home demanding that I get over it and give you blowjobs as if you were entitled to them – as if I owed them to you just for the sake that we were dating.
And yes, I did mean 'were' dating because, honestly, at this point I am more interested in finding someone who respects my boundaries and it is clear that you aren't capable of doing that if anyone so much as expresses a difference of opinion on whether they are or aren't needed, or disbelief at the fact that we're doing fine without them.
So yeah, go ahead and find someone that is willing to give you a BJ so that you can satisfy your friends by getting them because I'm done.”
No, he probably just gets escorts….and he doesn't need cam girls…he's got his own videos he can watch… ? ? ? ? ? ? but nice try. So far, my assumptions are based on your words and reactions and tit for tat. You're just lashing out like the tiny little girl you are.
I can understand your wife. The taste at the fertile days is really better. It tastes more fresh and a little bit salty. Before and after the period, there is the possiblity of some spotting, which smells and tastes not good.
You're not being unreasonable. He's 11 years older than her and talking to her about Pokémon, but he needs to delete the messages? And he talks to other girls and also deletes those? He has a choice to make. And so do you, do you really want to date someone who prioritizes talking to another girl and who keeps their messages hidden?
It's like Mom was trying to replace OP's Dad with her Stepdad. OP your Mom is a cunt. She cheated on your Dad, divorced him, married her AP, and deliberately moved you away from your Dad so you couldn't spend much time with him. That's beyond wrong.
Now, she once again is pushing your Dad out. She and your Stepdad can fuck right off. He doesn't deserve a Father/daughter dance. He helped destroy a family. He's not your Dad. Don't destroy your relationship with your Dad because your Mom chose to cheat and married her AP.
A common problem with people high in narcissistic traits is that they're unable and unwilling to take responsibility for their own actions–this is one of the reasons they do so much damage. It's always “someone else's” fault. There's no point trying to make him see that he's being horrible and frightening. He knows, but hes so mentally damaged his ego won't allow him to consciously and honestly admit it.
This is unkind of you. You need to break up with her.
I did contract Chlamydia about 6 months into the relationship when I found out. I assumed it was from one of his past flings (he had quite a few partners before meeting me, whereas I only had 2 (I tested in between)). He said that he had never been tested (even though we had the sex talk before having sex and he said he was clean). I just tested again in February to make sure everything was cleared up and I didn't show positive for anything. I definitely saw that as a red flag as he was either lying about being clean or genuinely didn't know and put my health in jeopardy. I asked him then if there was someone else that should be aware of our diagnosis and he said no. Things are just starting to add up and I can't shake the feeling that he's not being truthful
I truly think it is. It will be hot, but it’s worth it. Ignore people who thinks your son can’t possibly be your husbands because it’s been four years. Look into secondary infertility. It’s very real and can cause even a DECADE to go by without conceiving again.
First step is to figure out if your husband is the dad or not. Figure everything else out later. I think you should tell your husband beforehand but I can’t make that choice for you. The only thing I think you absolutely HAVE to do is find out paternity.
Good luck.
How would you intend to fix “this”?
You can't change who she is. She has no interest to have a higher frequency of intimacy with you. And you do.
The fact you're already detaching yourself from her and connecting with other girls says enough.
You may love her. But she isn't enough for you. And in return, you can not be what she needs in a partner either.
Get a new boyfriend.
As a survivor of abuse, that later found out that quite a few of his friends knew what he was doing, but never did or said anything, just acted kinda odd around me, you are helping him abuse his partner. You are complicit in the abuse. You are helping him abuse someone.
You say things like its “just” verbal abuse and you would draw the line at hitting, and that well, she stays so why should I cut him out. I drew the line at hitting too, because when everyone else minded their business and didnt want to get involved when he verbally abused me, he had a lot easier of a time to manipulate me and make me believe that what he was doing wasnt actually bad, I was just difficult. No one telling him to knock it off or give him any sort of consequences was the perfect ammunition for him to use against me to make me feel crazy for wanting him to stop, because if what he did was actually bad, surely his friends would have said something.
He knew that I would draw the line at hitting. Because hitting is the big gold standard of abuse. So he threw things at the wall around me, never hitting me. Yelled at me for everything. Humiliated me in front of people who didnt stand up for me. Made me feel like I was completely crazy. Made me question my reality. Controlling all the money, using like crazy on himself and lashing out at me when it ran out. And when I felt crazy enough and question my reality enough, he used it to rape me. All the time. And made me crazy for thinking it was rape, and it wasnt hitting, and maybe he was right that I actually wanted it, and it wasnt hitting, and no one else had problems with his behaviour so surely this was just normal too and I'm just being difficult, but if he ever hits me I'm gone. Truth be told, at that point I would probably have managed to accept an excuse for him hitting me as well.
You insinuate that he is “just” verbally abusing her and its not as bad as physical abuse. Its not a competition, both are absolutely vile and destroys you. You are complicit and are helping him abuse her. You and your friend group are helping him by being the mindless sheep he can use to manipulate her into thinking that maybe what he is doing isnt that bad. That she is just being difficult. That surely if the hurtfull things he says and does are bad, his friends would have stopped him. He is a good friend to you because you are mindless sheep that dont question him and are his silly little pawns that helps him abuse his partner. He is a good friend because you are easy to use. As soon as your boyfriend told him to knock it off, he got angry and texted you over your bf standing up for her, because you werent playing your role. His good friendship is only good because you are easy to use for his gain, he'll turn on you just the same when you dont serve his purpose. Thats what abusers do.
Had I been your boyfriend I would have dumped you on the spot. Both for condoning and being complicit in abuse, and for even wanting to be in a friend group that does the same. People like you help the abuser.
I immediately thought of the same thing. The OP isn’t being honest with herself and us about what has really happened, so she will never take responsibility and change her ways.
So I'm a bloke and this has happened between my wife and I.
Let me be clear, I cannot express how much I did not want this to happen, but sometimes it can happen, under the conditions that you described.
You must tell her that she is too young for you and that you wouldn't be able to comfortably engage in a romantic relationship with her. Thats it. You need to distance yourself and ensure you dont leave any doubt's that maybe at a later point this will change.
He's upset because he was happy with abusing your free domestic labor and when you didn't provide that he decided to abuse you emotionally.. rethink this child
Glad I'm not the only one that was put off by that lol
Do make sure you find more than clothing as evidence. Clothing alone might be explained away (I need to wear it for confidence).
Texts or other messages. You need in her phone (before she leaves if possible)
Dude, break up with her!! She could be your mom!
She enjoys them when we do end up doing it, yes. My question is how do I bring this up with her while not sounding unreasonable? Because it's something that's really been bothering me.
there's clearly a pattern that i can't see my god
The fact that there is a non-zero chance this is a troll disturbs me, though the odds are very much leaning in that direction.
Personally, After going through what you already have I would give him exactly ONE chance to choose his family over alcohol and I would take the kids and leave.
I agree cheating is definitely a possibility, but knowing her throughout all these years. I think I’m leaning more towards her being a shitty person. And putting my feelings aside for her own.
That’s just not true. The chemical reaction requires the presence of HCG which is only produced in the body when an a egg has been fertilized. What can happen is a situation called a chemical pregnancy where an egg has been fertilized but doesn’t implant and passes during a normal period. This is when people think they have had false positives.