If you keep bringing up threesomes with him, then it MAY become an issue.
He's not pushing it or anything, but you keep asking him if he wants it, and of course he does: you both enjoyed it last time. I don't see where the cheating aspect comes in, unless you keep on reminding/offering/discussing non-mono shit, every time you get shitfaced enough to let your fears and insecurities go into self-fulfilling mode. If you can't handle your alcohol, drink less.
If you are in the United States, buy, train yourself with, and carry a gun.
Pepper spray is an excellent non-lethal deterrent but please have something stronger as a back-up, because 'having a hot time seeing and breathing' does not translate to 'unable to do seriously injure or kill'.
How is the top comment on every one of these to throw away the whole relationship?
If you keep bringing up threesomes with him, then it MAY become an issue.
He's not pushing it or anything, but you keep asking him if he wants it, and of course he does: you both enjoyed it last time. I don't see where the cheating aspect comes in, unless you keep on reminding/offering/discussing non-mono shit, every time you get shitfaced enough to let your fears and insecurities go into self-fulfilling mode. If you can't handle your alcohol, drink less.
JM2
Keep pepper spray on you
If you are in the United States, buy, train yourself with, and carry a gun.
Pepper spray is an excellent non-lethal deterrent but please have something stronger as a back-up, because 'having a hot time seeing and breathing' does not translate to 'unable to do seriously injure or kill'.