Alicexalice shows her charms for you

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1. You need to date real people. LDRs are much harder because you can’t sort out any issues face to face. We do a lot of our social and emotional interactions using intuitive body language reading.

   If you misinterpret something he says because it’s through text or the video stream is crap you’re going to elevate any issues and then you may not get to resolve them before you speak/text again.

   I’d say you need to stay away from LDR. Find someone you can have a complete relationship with, not a part time one.

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2. Well, I have been blackout drunk many times in my life, and I have never accidentally had sex with someone. I’m so sorry this is happening, especially right before a holiday. The best and only thing to do, really, is wait for the storm to pass and take care of yourself in the meantime. Try not to stress about deciding whether to talk to your Mom or not. Just let a few days pass and then pick things up when you aren’t feeling as overwhelmed. Best of luck

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3. 1) admitting to planning visa/green card fraud is illegal and generally not a good thing to just straight up say like that

   2) pretending you're pregnant is a sure fire way for your mom to look at you and say well you aren't mature enough to be an adult

   Your idea is terrible, you aren't a teenager so don't act like one.

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4. He was in the hotel for 10 minutes? Riiiiigggght

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5. I know someone who was molested as a child by their own father. This woman is in her 60s. And a very super long story short, after going through many life experiences (good and bad), she found religion (or spirituality) and was able to forgive her father. She'll never be alone in the same room, though, no matter how long time has passed, but they visit each other and are able to have good, or at least decent, conversation. This woman has kids and even grandkids. Her kids know what happened, but still choose to talk to their grandfather. They hug and do kisses on the cheeks. They all joke around like any family would (not about said incident, obviously).

   It's something that should be up to you. If you really don't feel like you can on-line with your SO with that in the back of your mind, almost haunting you…then you might have already found your answer.

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6. Maybe I am projecting here, but I had the same scenario with my ex-boyfriend. We started out long distance, always had sex when we got to see each other a few times a month and everything was good – and as soon as I moved in, it stopped almost completely.

   I destroyed my self esteem trying desperately to figure out what the reason was; if I was suddenly unattractive to him, maybe something had happened to his libido, was he seeing someone else, was there a medical reason – for two years I tried everything to figure out how to improve our situation because I felt like absolute shit. The man was super kind, I was very in love with him, he treated me amazingly in every other area, but refused to acknowledge or talk about this specific issue. Did not want to do a medical check up, did not want to try couples therapy, nothing. Just a complete shut down if the problem was addressed.

   One day I was borrowing his computer for work, saved my file to the wrong folder and when I opened it (with the tile “budget”) to retrieve it, I found a hidden porn folder with thousands of pictures and links to porn videos. Tried to rationalize it, thinking maybe it was before we met and his sex drive had plunged after. Then I walk in on him after coming home from work early one day, after not having sex for literal months, and I find him sitting on the couch with lights off, fucking candles lit and jerking it to porn. Turns out he had a porn addiction, which he had no intention of addressing or wanting to get rid off, and let me become severely depressed to the point of having suicidal thoughts from thinking I was literally hideous and unlovable. Fuck. That. Guy. Intimacy is important, it is directly linked to our self image for many of us and how we express physical love towards our partner. Knowing your partner suffers and is killing themselves over trying to solve the problem without any empathy or willingness to address that pain – that is not a kind human being. No matter how the rest of the relationship looks like.

   I see someone else commented on you guys perhaps spending too much time together, and him “needing to miss you”. I say that is BS. I met my current husband right after my porn addicted ex. I cried when he touched me the first time, because it had been so long since I had felt wanted like that. We have been together almost 11 years now, we always want to be around each other, we have sex on average 4-5 times a week and I never doubt for a second that he doesn't desire me. My only regret is wasting over 2 years on my ex because it took me three times as long to rebuild the self esteem that he destroyed.

   TLDR; if the issue is not actively addressed, chances are it is not worth it for your mental health to keep trying in a one-sided attempt to fix it further. At least from my experience.

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