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Old people like to pressure young people to get married and have kids because misery loves company.
Tell them you are forever single!
This is a very tricky situation. OP is in a tangle, and he has no resources to work with, and a daughter to consider. If you want to offer advice as empty as “go get a lawyer (with money you don’t have), no wait I mean go to the authorities (and say what to whom?)” you are occasionally have it pointed out to you that’s it’s pretty useless advice. If you don’t want to hear one of that stop replying.
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People don't want to hear the truth.
0 – 25 = young 25 – 50 = middle aged 50 – 75 = geriatric
Then when he come home for a visit, offer to get his gas money.
You can change that by working on yourself. Not being jealous or actually being happy for them. Finding things to do on your own and so forth. It comes with time and you have time.
All of this is great advice, and you seem to be taking it well. I just want to add… You are not an idiot or a masochist for having tried so far. Your wife is abusive, but you are not crazy to feel sorry for her– she is a very wounded and emotionally unhealthy person who cannot be in a happy relationship with anybody right now. That’s very sad, but it is true you need to get out for your own sake and frankly for hers.
So yes you can see her as broken and sad and you can feel sorry for her. (She is those things, along with being abusive). Just need to also understand she and you cannot be in a relationship. You are not punishing her; you’re fixing a broken situation. You’re not being the bad guy. You are saving yourself and frankly giving her a chance to save herself if she still chooses.
I also want to say, and I hope you have learned it here, that this situation is way more common than you think. Lots of wounded people are out there and they and their spouses don’t talk to friends about it, and it is awful! Crippling insecurity makes a relationship miserable and impossible. I frankly wish we were taught to look out for this and avoid it more when picking a partner. (Once you get out and are able to start talking about your reality, you’ll be shocked to learn how many other peoples’ quiet break ups and divorces were due to this exact same problem, and they went through their own personal and very similar hell and you had no idea because they were in the same shame/secret codependent chaos that you are in now!)
And OMG as someone who has seen both sides of this, once you get out, you will be so much happier. Please trust me. You are both now in an exhausting cycle, and once you escape it, reality will be so much easier to understand, and your life will be so much better. Do not beat yourself up that you are too deep right now to see things 100% clearly… Just please promise to take steps to GET OUT so that you can do so soon!!! My heart goes out to you.
Me.too, OP. I ended a horrible marriage and at 40 et the love of my life. Second beginnings are the best xx
think i’m gonna do the same thing to her but while she’s stuck here. never have even thought about it but now i want her to see how i feel
I have spoken to his mom about it a few times but I try to not over step.. when things are going left I do want to call her but I don’t want to add fire to the flame. I also try recommending not drinking that night but usually at that point my words are of no effect.
Good for you. You’re way more civil than I am.
You’re arguing for 100% trust or divorce. That’s not how mature relationships work.
Another example: your partner mentions a new person at work. Nothing to be suspicious about. Partner mentions new person is attractive. Suspicious, but not worth nuking the relationship over. They start hanging around alone together, time to ask questions, but still not worth nuking. They back off each other, you’ll note the experience and be quicker to act next time.
These things ebb and flow.
Where we disagree is not chance — the chance of false paternity is 1/25. Not high, but not nothing. Where we disagree is severity of risk. Raising another man’s child is risking 18+ of the best years of your life and hundreds of thousands of dollars. And the opportunity risk of not being able to have your own kids.
? look I'm not saying it's the solution I'm saying it helps. But that was hilarious and I almost spit out my coffee.
This is all kinds of messed up. You can wear a butt plug. They have vagina rejuvenation lasers, I’ve even heard allum works. Some sort of seasoning powered or something?
Are you thinking about leaving him? What’s the difference between getting married at 22 and 26? Girls like you are willing sell your young soul and settle for money (actual cash or expensive item). You’re not gonna experience anything much being in a relationship for the perks.
Being single and exploring yourself is part of being young to find out what you want to do with your life.
Goddamn it.
Sounds like she already has from the other comments, they just haven't caught him on camera yet.