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If you get your nexplanon out you will need to give 3-6 months of tracking before you will reliably be able to even try to use it as birth control. In addition cycle tracking requires either abstinence and condom use in the 5 days leading up to ovulation and one to two days after.
It can take months to learn your cycle. As someone who has spent a long time trying for a baby my ovulation varied by 3 days each month. Which would mean, if I was using it as tracking I would have to abstain or use condoms for 7 days a month.
Cycle tracking isn't magic. I have 2 friends that have used it for years snd eventually did get accidentally pregnant. They thought it would never happen.
If you don't want a child find a different method of birth control. If he won't use condoms. Do not have sex with him.
It just sounds like you are not in a deeply committed relationship yet. And this might not be the person for you. At only 24, it is normal to not be sure what you want out of life. That includes what you want in a partner. You always want more because you don't know how to be satisfied and enjoy what you have. Until you learn this, you will always be unhappy with your status quo. Being unsettled is not the same thing as having drive and passion.
Soulmates don't exist. Perfection does not exist. No one is 100% compatible and compromise is always involved. If you have a great relationship, you stop wanting more by devoting your mental energy spent looking elsewhere to making your relationship “more”. Relationships are work and an investment. If you prefer to flit around from relationship to relationship because you get bored, that is either not the right person for you. Or you need to work on yourself.
If you have an attractive, great person who checks all of your boxes, then there is no “better” out there. Only different. Choosing to stop search for more is not settling. Settling is choosing something that you know makes you unhappy. You are not unhappy in this relationship. Don't blow it.
If you get your nexplanon out you will need to give 3-6 months of tracking before you will reliably be able to even try to use it as birth control. In addition cycle tracking requires either abstinence and condom use in the 5 days leading up to ovulation and one to two days after.
It can take months to learn your cycle. As someone who has spent a long time trying for a baby my ovulation varied by 3 days each month. Which would mean, if I was using it as tracking I would have to abstain or use condoms for 7 days a month.
Cycle tracking isn't magic. I have 2 friends that have used it for years snd eventually did get accidentally pregnant. They thought it would never happen.
If you don't want a child find a different method of birth control. If he won't use condoms. Do not have sex with him.
It just sounds like you are not in a deeply committed relationship yet. And this might not be the person for you. At only 24, it is normal to not be sure what you want out of life. That includes what you want in a partner. You always want more because you don't know how to be satisfied and enjoy what you have. Until you learn this, you will always be unhappy with your status quo. Being unsettled is not the same thing as having drive and passion.
Soulmates don't exist. Perfection does not exist. No one is 100% compatible and compromise is always involved. If you have a great relationship, you stop wanting more by devoting your mental energy spent looking elsewhere to making your relationship “more”. Relationships are work and an investment. If you prefer to flit around from relationship to relationship because you get bored, that is either not the right person for you. Or you need to work on yourself.
If you have an attractive, great person who checks all of your boxes, then there is no “better” out there. Only different. Choosing to stop search for more is not settling. Settling is choosing something that you know makes you unhappy. You are not unhappy in this relationship. Don't blow it.
This is the actual best advice he's getting at this point.