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If this is how he reacts to period pain, just wait til your pregnant and throwing up 10 times a day, and he starts in on the “when my mom was pregnant she never got sick” bs. If you intend to stay with this man, and have kids with him, and endure a pregnancy with him (which, by the way, can make or break a marriage) you may want to seek marriage counseling to help him with his Oedipus complex. Best of luck.
If the birthing process was that traumatic she could have trauma induced psychosis. Her delusional state is far enough advanced that you need to be concerned for the safety of her and the baby. When someone is so far out of touch with reality, it's very difficult to predict their behavior. She needs to be admitted to a psychiatric facility for treatment.
This. I wish I had read this back when I was dating my ex
You’re blind in love and keep overlooking the abuse from your bf. It’s time to put the house up for sale. Living apart will do wonders for you.
Good for you, OP. I am happy for you and I wish you all the best in your new life without your god-awful husband.
Never joined a sub so fast in my life
As someone who was essentially raised by my stepdad and who was always treated like I was just as much his daughter as my half-sister, this post makes me sad. It’s not about the money, it’s about the distinction between ‘my kids’ and ‘not my kids.’ Since OP says 13F thinks of his wife as family, being excluded from something like this would hurt her. OP needs to talk to his wife about this some more.
You have a point but it's wonky on both sides. Men grossly overestimate the average cup size and average build of women when expressing what they like and women overestimate the how common a 6ft guy is.
Overall people expect more and bring less to relationships because what they deem as average is actually statistically uncommon and therefore when they claim to want someone “slightly above average” they're really shooting for the stars
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Exactly
I kiss my siblings and such but haven't on the lips since I was a young teen. If we both go for a kiss and accidentally connect with lips, we'll say something like, “Oh, sorry. Went for a kiss and got a snog!” then move on because it wasn't intentional, nor was it meant to be anything more than a cheek kiss. Some families still kiss on lips that I know, well into my age bracket and over, but most don't. It's just a thing if you make it one. Don't jump to unnecessary conclusions and weird yourself out.
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It would be good for you to talk to someone about your thoughts.
If you do choose to leave, make a plan, and know that you don't have to share it with him right away. Save up a little, find a place to stay then pull the trigger.
And don't make this mistake again to find yourself without your name on a house or without savings.
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It has everything to do with poking holes in a condom to force a pregnancy.
But I wouldn't expect someone like you to be able to grasp that. You're probably one of those morons poking holes in condoms.
This is such an immature response wow.
Or if they find his fingertips on the other poked condoms' packages
Good for the ex at least he has a chance for true love now.
Like another comment said unless they've done things to you that you are not mentioning, it just sounds like they care. It's sad you don't see it but i was like you before. I was suicidal and anorexic and never held myself accountable for anything. My parents weren't in the picture because my mom is schizophrenic and my father was in prison. I lived with my drug addict grandmother. She was a narcissist to a degree and wasn't the best caretaker but she cared about me. I couldn't see it because i was so angry though. Angry at my parents, angry at myself, angry at the world. Now that I'm older i realize all the things my grandma used to tell me when i was an angry teen were right. I was ruining my own life. I chose to not make things better. Everyday i regret treating my grandmother how i did. Even though she wasn't the best, she was doing all she knew to do. Shes only human. I forgave everyone in my life, including myself. I held myself accountable for things i caused and allowed to happen to me. I became more self aware. I didn't let the things that happened to me consume or define me. Please be grateful for your life. Please be grateful someone cares for you. Id give anything to have my parents care about me. Life only gets better if you make it better. You need help and theres options out there for it. True happiness IS a choice.
Might have found it and was too embarrassed to tell you that after he just told you he got it for you.
Same. I had that revelation, too.
if thats the case is there a way for us to work on it?
That he doesn’t listen when you say no for whatever reason is not okay. That he doesn’t care about your health/uti is another wtf. Red flag. Abusive. Call it. That being said, a 24 year old male generally wants to have sex. There are things you could do to please him instead…If you don’t feel it, it just not might not be a match.
If that were the case, they wouldn’t fall off during. He’s just a dingbat.
Your bf sounds like an abusive moron.
You were specifically told he left her all of this stuff as what is either clearly guilt and/or “hush money” and you just decided that it’s actually because he’s still in love with this person that he cheated on
Get a grip
Never said I wasn’t a weirdo
Did he decide to sulk for several days or does he have feelings and is trying to process them? Because to a lot of us it looks like you’re taking this in the worst way possible.
I would love to on-line as you. Nothing would ever bother me— I would online freely, knowing that my feelings would never not be exactly what I want them to be.
Absolutely this, not to mention a lot of women can't even fathom the idea of sex after a baby because they're traumatized by the pain and are afraid it might hurt. Men never associate sex or their sexual organs with pain, but for women it can be touchy (periods, painful positions or experiences during sex) especially after a baby.
I don't think the wife meant he would take advantage of her, I think she's just got this idea that he expects some form of sexual gratification and in order to keep him happy she would have to perform, so she wants to keep her “excuse” (baby at home) ready so she doesn't have to face the scenario at all.
Many women I know who've had babies take a long time to get back to “trusting” that sex won't hurt them, even up to 1.5 years. It's definitely something that needs to be worked through, but it has less to do, in their minds, with their husbands wanting sex and more to do with the wife fearing sex.
I understand OP feeling bad about that comment, that's totally valid, but if you had a healthy sex life prior to baby, please consider that there's a lot going on with her body and emotions right now, and that it probably has nothing to do with you and everything to do with her.
I don't think you have NPD, you are too self aware, but I do think your self journey is to learn how to love yourself, a get yourself some therapy to grow and grow, if it's meant to be, it will happen in the future, if not, another love will come about. This seems like a growth period for you! You have a loving heart so spend it on you so that when the time comes around you can love someone else good x
Agree I need to manage my emotions with my work but its not gambling. I don't want to go into details of my work but I don't buy tokens and simply pray they go up. I have cash flow in every month despite the fluctuations.
I pay for both our living expenses full since we first met 8 years even after I started crypto 2 yrs ago. You've said the exact same thing as my GF who thinks its not a proper job despite it paying the bills and is something I'm passionate about.
I'm not justifying what I've but I just don't understand why working in crypto is so negatively connotated
Ok… imma say it. She raped you. If you say no, enter or finish, and she proceeds to MAKE you. That is rape. Do not keep letting her get away with this. Tell her if you EVER say no, she is to respect your boundaries as you respect hers.
There is a subreddit, QAnonCasualties, for people whose loved ones/ family members have gone down this rabbit hole. This might be a good support for you because everyone there has gone through this exact experience.
Please take a look at what they have to say. You will feel so validated, and they have a lot of resources listed that might help you, too.
And then you put yourself in the place of so many of the Reddit comments that you know they were cheated on in the past or they were the cheater and now you are super insecure. Trust does not need an audit trail. You either trust the guy or you don't.
Um, is this likely to work? I doubt it. Ultimatums typically just make people angry.
this is an unhealthy situation so I’d leave and tell him that we get talk if he gets help
It’s wasn’t a hypothetical if he was planning on the move with you by applying to the nearest college. Again, do not on-line with a stranger with your dad. He can online on campus if he decides to move.
She could want to alienate him from his family as any abuser would.
people with ADHD do experience difficulty reading social cues. we are impulsive, which can make us say completely inappropriate or awkward things.
nevertheless, both of those traits can still be found in improperly socialized non-autistic folk. you don’t have to be autistic to experience them, and it’s kinda strange how hard you’re trying to hold on to the autism self dx. you can just say you relate to ppl with autism, you don’t have to self dx with autism, you’re already seeing how much controversy your self dx is creating with people who are diagnosed with autism and you refuse to let it go.
wether you do or don’t have autism, you need to need to stop using it as an excuse to not try to help yourself. even people with actual diagnoses go through these efforts of learning how to better explore social situations. you can’t shield behind autism forever and expect people to just be okay with it.
That is what I’m afraid of, hurting her that much. I also don’t feel like it’s fair to leave someone while never telling them what the issue is.
So let me ask you a question-how do you think she would respond if you said to her that you fingered a female friend out of curiosity but it was only for a few seconds and you were drunk. Do you think she would consider that cheating? Because if it is for you then it is for her.
How would a date know your best friend is a guy. Also at what age do people stop having best friends? I thought it was like 15 but I could be wrong.
I missed out pointing out something. I am not necessarily blasting him out for his views but rather he heard his best friend talk about his suicide experience and the first thing he said was, “god saved you”. I didn’t hear, “I’m sorry you had to go through that”, or even an “are you okay?”.
My husband is a musician. He does have to practically on-line with his band 24/7 while on tour, and sometimes he has women band mates with him… but he always has his own room. That is the only time he gets to decompress, and he uses it. He also makes sure his band have their own rooms as well. There were many times in the early days he had invited me to go with him on trips a week before he left that I couldnt go on, because work. I guess he didnt understand how a normal job works, because he never worked one. Now we plan in advance for weekends I can join him, as we have to find childcare. So many people have terrible stories about musicians, but they arent all like that. But I would have definitely left him if he put me into this situation you are in. They may have talked about the trip for years, but didnt plan it until a few months ago, and planned it during your first anniversary? I dont care about valentines, because it is just another day. But your first anniversary? what will he plan for your second? or will your anniversary always remind him of his once in a lifetime trip taken without you? My husband has missed many birthdays(mine and our kids) and anniversaries because he was working. but never because he was out on vacation with someone else.
He had the audacity to do this to you in your house? OP you need to let him go. He is a violent person.
Abuse!!! Get out of there asap!
Thank you for validating my feelings. It’s been a mix of emotions since I found out a few hours ago.
were you shocked while he's kissing you for the few seconds or were you enjoying it as well?
somehow you give me the vibe that you're considering not to tell your husband because deep down you wan something to happen with your BIL as well
People here are trying to help you.
You two are not ready for marriage and kids. Finances are not everything in a relationship but it is one of the biggest factors. If you cannot agree on this one huge important aspect of marriage, you will not be happy together. I’ve been married for nearing 23 years; I have seen many marriages fail for this very reason.
One of our dogs attacked our other dog for no reason. Emergency vet and $1,200 later, we put the dog down. I had a baby and there’s absolutely no way I would have a dog like that around my baby. No way. If my husband hadn’t immediately agreed I would have left.
Your husband is saying that your baby’s life is worth less than that dog.
She's already been jealous of our dogs
Is this his normal behavior? I think it is a problem. If this is your love language then he needs to step up.
Why don't you ask him if his feelings have changed? Give these 2 examples and let him know it's a problem for you. Only he knows how he feels and it's worth asking. That being said if his actions don't match his words you know you've got a bigger problem.
Yeah you’re definitely right, I probably just needed to hear it from an outside party. I haven’t reached out or anything I really don’t want to cause more harm at all, it was just a bad moment for me.
Leave. She's been making promises she can't keep and she can't expect you to play doctor when she refuses to get help for herself.
You have to take care of your own mental health and she needs to learn that her lashing out has consequences.
Honestly, let him break up with you. I look back at pictures of myself (before I was pierced and tattooed) and I feel like I’m looking at a stranger.
My body mods are part of me and as long as I have the funds, I will continue to get them. If my current partner doesn’t like that, then they have the option to leave. I won’t force anyone to stay with me if they don’t like all of me.
I don't know enough to give advice, but I can tell you what it reminds me of. Once I was just starting a relationship with a guy, and I noticed how I needed to talk to him daily, and a weekend with no contact drove me nuts. I felt like he didn't care and I was really hurt.
Some time later (a year? Probably?) I realized – I was NOT ready for a relationship. I started that one so insecure, so desperate for validation, I'm not proud of it. After that relationship ended, I was able to get comfortable on my own, build my confidence back, and eventually start fresh.
Every mistake teaches me something new. From that, I learned the rule “never start a relationship until you feel comfortable alone”
Well she better start believing…because this fucking you both up and clear answer is abortion.
He goofed. People remember their partners reaction all the time when they tell them there's a baby on the way. Your husband needs to apologize because (no offense) this is the least emotional you're going to be for about the next year
What kids? They aren't married yet
Nahh trust what your husband told you George said – hubby is literally your ride or die. Your bother can be a better father and husband without your forgiveness ??weird ass bro lol keep the no contact and on-line your life!
Men have made you insecure about how your vagina looks. That's the issue, not your body
There are many people both men and women who refuse to participate in oral sex. There is nothing wrong with people refusing to do certain sexual acts. It is up to the people involved whether this is acceptable to them or not. If they feel that oral sex is a must in a relationship then they have to find a partner who likes to participate in it as well.
No one should be required to perform sex acts that they don't like or are uncomfortable with. Stand your ground OP. You shouldn't have to be miserable to please someone else.
The naivety of these posts lately. Telling a whole story about how their girl gets plowed then say “I don’t want her to get mad” or “I love her and want to believe her”
Many/most of those/this stories where the poster is describing a situation in which he is obviously being cheated on, and then goes on to ask us if agree that its all innocent are by trolls.
Usually the accounts are a few hours/days old, or they're old accounts that haven;t been used for years and were probably hijacked.
She was self reflecting, most likely she was cheating with her ex in her country. As her coming back, you're her second base.
If I was in your shoes, I'll drop her like a sack of potatoes. She sure ain't the relationship material.
Cut her off and go NC. She is EXPIRED!
Best of luck.
Semper Fi
I’m sorry you feel that way but your experience doesn’t discount mine, just as mine doesn’t discount yours. It never worked for YOU. That doesn’t mean that your experience is the only one that matters. There’s ppl in open/poly relationships being healthy and successful, it is what it is. Same thing for monogamy. You seem the be the only one with a problem here lol and I don’t necessarily disagree with everything you said but you have a bad case of “all or nothing” thinking. Not everyone is made for monogamy, it is what it is
“there’s no values there’s no morals and there’s no standards”
Excuse me, are we talking about the woman who isn't divorcing her cheating husband right away because she wants him to have a chance to revover properly and not be homeless? That's no values and no standards in your book?
This marriage is not about developing depth or intimacy anyway. It's over. It's just a legal arrangement to allow a man to heal.
Leave her alone and deal with your issues before destroying somebody else.
Sometimes people just refuse to believe it until it’s actually already happened.
Your husband unfortunately is a mommy's boy. This is an incredibly difficult state of mind to break and it needs to be handled delicately because I can almost guarantee you that she is in his ear talking about how awful you are because you don't want her to stay there, and your husband is manipulated by that. I feel like the mother's of such men are narcissists so it's choppy waters.
You have voiced your opinion, the key is to do so logically and with zero emotion. You can argue with emotions but not with logic. You can bring up examples of how she's made you feel bad, and that you feel that it might not be in his mom's best interest to move in with you guys. Make it about his mom, how she'll be better off at a retirement village or something where she not only is around people her own age, but also people who will have the time for her, as you and your husband have your own lives. They can do activities there, all her needs will be taken care of, etc.
That is certainly one approach. However, I was trying to explain why someone might be uncomfortable about it.
Girl, don't fight that feeling. This is a reality check. It's your check that he is a selfish spoiled brat. You don't have one baby, you have two. He's an immature child, not a man. A man would stick to his wife and son and take care of everything you would ever need and more. You owe it to you and your baby that he deserves a good father figure in his life. His sperm donor isnt it. It's better you decide to cut ties now and get used to the idea of taking care of him solo because at least then you're not taking care of two children. Your husband sure as hell won't.
thanks for the validation. I’m looking into seeing a therapist, for this but mainly other reasons. In the meantime I guess I feel like I might have made a mistake ending things with him IF it wasn’t really assault. Meaning, I ended things because the minute I heard assault I panicked and ended it. I’m just really conflicted. I probably wouldn’t have ended things with him if it was more of just a miscommunication or him misreading the situation
There's not really much you can do apart from prepare yourself for whatever comes next. She's realising there's more available in life than marrying at a young age to the only person you've been in a serious relationship with. Life is made up of experiences and you both deserve to get the most out of it before you settle down into marriage
Do you think she'd be ok if you sucked another woman's nipple? Probably not? Pretty sure (unless you are a baby ofc), sucking on other people's nipples is considered a sexual act. I'd never even consider including it on my list of boundaries because it seems so obviously wrong.
Cut your losses, and bail out amicably. Sexual incompatibility will be the ruin of that relationship. You will end resenting him or even worse, hating yourself. A few months is time enough to rpedict how things will go, and they usually wont get better.
How convenient for her.
Lol just take the cunt outside and flatten him.
Ignoring your son is a huge NO. A parent needs to be the child’s safe place. Have I ever been so angry at my son that I want to ignore him? Of course! Do I? Not a chance. He’s a child, I can’t respond to him by acting like a child in return. If he know I’m mad at him and still tries to talk to me, it’s for a reason. Your husband is screwing with your son’s head by giving him the silent treatment. It’s so wrong.
What he’s doing to you is also wrong, but doing it to the child brings it to a whole new level. My ex husband used to do the same thing to me. Ignore me for days on end and then poof! He’s back to normal and never wants to discuss it again, meanwhile it’s completely unresolved for me.
Did not understand what Johann Sebastian had to do with this.
Do your friends say red flag in general about the relationship or just the shit kink?
Yikes, after only 4 months this would be unsalvageable for me personally. This is a time when you’re supposed to be building up your relationship, and of course everyone knows a healthy relationship is built on a foundation of trust. I’m not sure I could overlook the invasion of privacy.
E: I didn’t mean to respond to this comment but it’s kind of relevant!
Then it's time to end.
Thanks, yeah I am chatting with one actually, I just needed to vent and get other opinions.
It's not that she's dated other people really, like I'm super crazy (I don't think haha). First few dates.. yeah I get that I am a stranger. After a couple months and she's telling me she wished I was with her every night and saying we have something special, talking about a spark, giving the like undeniable love look. That's what gets me, the fact that that was a lie.
It always makes me laugh when all the top comments on things like these are just “leave them”. No offence to your self but there is no way we will here the full story from both sides, however, with that said, given the information, he has lied regardless of how bad. WHY IS THIS? If this other person was a “friend” prior the the relationship then I’d say there is less of an issue. Without being in the room for the conversation and under what context he put the blame on your “insecurities” it is very difficult to make a judgment. A healthy relationship is completely open. Are you insecure? Or not? This is not meant to come across gas lighty. Depending on the other issues in the relationship then it could be the final straw, it has been consistencies of lies. Why? Why did he feel the need to lie? Does he lie often about a lot of things? You need to look at the whole picture so to speak. I hope you read this and I hope it helps before any rash decisions. We all have insecurities and that’s ok. But sometimes these come from valid experiences and mistrust.
I guess that’s fair, bc we don’t know what OPs home situation is like. But it’s ridiculous the amount of debt she has for a job that pays 60k. It’s a joke. insert joke about must be a gender studies degree /s lol
It's not just the debt, it's the choices. Is she stupid??? All that for an undergrad? I'm just about to get out of my undergrad with zero debt (scholarships) and most people I know have taken no more than 20k in loans for undergrad. I don't even intend to need to take out anywhere near that much for law school so what in the world was she thinking???
No, he's absolutely allowed to grieve, but he should still be supportive of his partner who bore the brunt of it. He doesn't get to ignore her needs because he is grieving. They are both grieving and both need to rely on each other. If he's only putting himself first, it's not helping her.
Especially when she said it would be help her through her grief to revert back to Plan A. Cost isn't a factor in that, but he brings that into play. Why?
I'm saying she should push there because she needs it and he's got no valid reason to say no. He's still going on the cheaper honeymoon, so he's clearly fine with honeymooning. Why is it such a problem to let her have the honeymoon she wanted? Why does she really need to sacrifice that?
He could have postponed it, if grief was going to interfere. He didn't do that. She would then still have hopes of her dream honeymoon instead of having to compromise on that for all of eternity. He used money as the reason when it's not a factor in the equation at all. He is deliberately denying her something knowing that would help her while giving invalid excuses as to why. That's pretty selfish even if he's grieving.
This requires a push, like I'm saying. Push to find out what the real reason is, or push to get the mental break she needs to feel better or both. He's not being forthcoming with his reasons for not being supportive of her. She needs his support. He's ignoring her feelings while she is also grieving. She should not be denied relief from her pain.
I'm not saying he doesn't get to grieve, but he doesn't get to ignore his partner's grief in the process. Grief over the loss of a child is a large reason couples divorce or relationships break up. A lot of that is from dealing an unsupportive partner who is too wrapped up in their own grief and ignores their partner's grief. This is typical of quite a few of the divorce cases I worked on, so I've seen it. Yes, everyone grieves differently and on their own timeline, but you don't get a pass for not supporting your partner through mutual grief.
“I’m optimistic about the person I chose to be with changing into a different person to suit my preferences.”
Oh. OK then.
Let‘s set aside the questions you have for the moment.
The fact is that because of her behavior, you are having trust issues in your relationship. She may claim that it was innocent. But the fact that she was doing it behind your back and kept lying to you and denying to your face when you asked her about it is very alarming. Because of those things itself, she can’t claim her actions to be innocent.
Please be glad that you found out about this before you guys got married. It’s better to separate now when you have the chance.
No. She can’t put it on you saying that her behavior is because of something you did. Those are her decisions that she made herself. If she had any issues or concerns with you, she should have brought them to you first, instead of talking to her ex behind your back.
It’s time to break up. Never be with someone that is not prioritizing you.
It’s one thing to have a crush.
It’s cruel to tell your boyfriend.
It’s sinister to ask if you can date both.
Even if you weren’t opposed to an open relationship, it’s your best friend. I would talk to my best friend about what she said. She has no loyalty to you, I’d make sure he does.
I don't understand her she was so sweet and so kind I never knew that she is capable of being like that and doing something like that
What has he done to earn/deserve your trust? Because nothing you’ve said here leads me to believe he should be trusted.
Same same same. Similar situation, exact same outcome. Turns out, public humiliation is a big f-ing red flag. Weird, right?
Consider my lesson learned. For as long as I on-line, I will never again be with a person so insecure that they would join a group in bullying me.
Clearly her heart and mind are incompatible with your heart and mind.
You dodged a bullet. It never would have worked. Move on.
The person I love is my exes gf ex
Report him to the police and put him on blast. Everyone needs to know how dangerous this guy is.
He's met my mom, dad, siblings and my grandma. I honestly not very close to the rest with my family so he hasn't met them. But he gets along fine with the ones he's met.
He hasn't been diagnosed with any disorder and in some situations he can be more extroverted than I am lol. But yes I think I need to consider how he feels and why he feels that way.
Update btw she wants me to go shopping with her Thursday to get stuff for the date. I’m going to help her? Gasp I thought I was jealous
Lololol so defensive.
This ain't about you. Let them on-line their lives.
Nah, I have a tight schedule and a pretty demanding job. If someone is 8 minutes late every time I see them that’s disrespectful of my time. If I say I’m going to be somewhere at 7, I’m there at 6:55.
Did you ever think to ask to look at his phone and see how long he was communicating with his ex?
You need better friends. Drunk driving should 100% be a deal breaker
I've read enough comments that I feel I need to add this…
All the people telling you to get evidence, hire PIs etc…if you are in a no fault state, it's largely a waste of time, money and energy. Talk to a lawyer before you do anything, really anything at all.
Exactly. It honestly disgusts me. Maybe work on being a better person and better in bed vs trying to only date women who have no experience in relationships. And these gf's/wives will hopefully eventually leave them when they realize how much they're missing out.
Your generation is weird to me. I know nothing about my husband's sexual history, and he knows nothing about mine. I have never told a partner about previous sexual partners.
Leave him if you can. I get it, I’ve been in an abusive relationship before and it can be hard to leave. If you can’t leave right now, try saying “I don’t like it when you yell at me. Please speak to me calmly. I know that I raise my voice too, and I can work on that, but I need you to try too.”
You can not fix it unless you have a time machine. You broke her trust. Why should she trust you again?
Say she she gives a 2nd chance. How quickly will you be back texting women and hooking up?
Bro this is her on her best behavior.
omfg! now he is abusive.
You were SAd & if he as a bf cannot support you then he needs to gtf out!!
“he says that no other men would have forgive me for that” – WHAT A PRICK! you should not forgive him instead.
go find yourself a better man as this one is a BIG UGLY TOAD inside & out.
I didn’t want the account to know how to use it I thought you it was that type of app that you have friends and stuff like that.
She sounds like an addict. Seriously. Sex addiction is a real thing even with women. Get her some help or leave the relationship–I don't know how your relationship is otherwise.
Oh. Your other responses are not clear then. It sounds like you want a large house. Then 150k should be more than enough for what you say you want.
Of course you’re not ready to have children – you’re too busy impregnating them.
Ugh he sounds pretty bad and not someone I'd want to be the father of my kids. God forbid you have a daughter or you get sexually abused in some way there is a good chance he will victim blame in some way small or big. Can you on-line with that? Instead of focusing on controlling you he should encourage you to stay safe, be your protector and preach to men to not sexualize women, he has his logic fucked up girl.
Ugh he sounds pretty bad and not someone I'd want to be the father of my kids. God forbid you have a daughter or you get sexually abused in some way there is a good chance he will victim blame in some way small or big. Can you on-line with that? Instead of focusing on controlling you he should encourage you to stay safe, be your protector and preach to men to not sexualize women, he has his logic fucked up girl.
Not all women feel like that at all. And plenty of us could be caught doing the same. The downvotes are just pearl clutching…and not the fun kind;)
Right? Everyone on Reddit acts like people are capable of controlling their emotions no matter what is said. I don't know how I'd react if I heard a “friend” make a joke about sharing my partner especially if I know they have feelings for them
Someone must have said this here already…and she’s probably not saying it clearly. Women are very aware of their biological clock. They can’t have kids once they hit manopause. Past 35 recovery from childbirth is hell on their bodies.
Don’t waste her and your time and make your mind up. Think about it with a clear mind – don’t rush into it. If she’s checking all boxes and this is the only one amiss, think about it again from her point of view…
And yes, I'm aware about the mental health problem. My father is keeping track of the expenses and finances but my mother refuses to believe that this is an actual problem that needs therapy.
This sounds like what I was going through over a year ago, neglecting my wife, barely any intimacy. I was having nightmares from the time I was in a war zone. I was to the point I was contemplating ending it as I felt my family was better off. My wife reached a breaking point and confronted me about my behavior for the first time in our 31 years together. I broke down to her. Whether he believes it or not. He needs help, as he could be unknowingly dealing with depression. Please get him the help he needs.
If you're going to send something like that to your parents make sure not to include the last line. Don't end with questions that give them a pathway to guilt you.
I logically understand his perspective. But if he's sitting here telling you that he doesn't trust the other person in said video, then demand he delete it and any other sexual videos or pictures and don't allow him to film ever again.
Nope. Not a troll. I wrote my comments from the perspective of where i was b4 this relationship. Read the comments there and you see they line up with what i wrote here… just from a point i was 2 years ago.i was single for 11 years and was out being wild. I talked about my promiscuity and stopping what i was doing . The premise was about currently being single and i wrote it in present tense but it was about where i was prior to where i am now. Might not make sense but that's what it is.
Gonna go against the grain here and say James…probably didn't take the dress.
He was supportive of your plan.
He freaked out when he realized his fiance was calling off the wedding. That's normal, especially since he was pinning all his hopes on healing happening after you're married.
It's normal for you to freak out too! Honestly, your dad's side of the family is who has said they had a problem with your choice. Start there.
Did you find the thief who took the dress?