I mean, you know what he meant. The dude thinks you have a big nose and is wondering whether you ever intend to do something about it.
Maybe just straight up say that you’ve been bullied because of your features before and you’ve learned to love the way you are and won’t be making any changes.
If you want to move in with ANYONE whether it is a roommate or BF, you have to have conversations about what that looks like. Rent, utilities, food, and common household expenses like TP, cleaning products, etc. Are you splitting the cost? How? Who pays what? When? What’s the monthly due dates and expectations? CHORES?! Who does which chores and when? Dishes, cooking, cleaning, laundry, vacuuming, common spaces, bathrooms, kitchen, etc. REMEMBER it is unrealistic and ASSHOLERY to expect other people to clean up other peoples messes. Do not move in with your BF without discussing things like this. You can agree to things now and adjust later as circumstances change. You can swap chores and responsibilities when it works for both of you. But BEWARE of him wanting you to move on and expecting you to act like “housewife.”
What do you do when you're sick? Go see a doctor.
His depression and sleep issues are likely a chicken/egg situation.
Why are you dating someone so much younger than you?
I mean, you know what he meant. The dude thinks you have a big nose and is wondering whether you ever intend to do something about it.
Maybe just straight up say that you’ve been bullied because of your features before and you’ve learned to love the way you are and won’t be making any changes.
Thank you for this
If you want to move in with ANYONE whether it is a roommate or BF, you have to have conversations about what that looks like. Rent, utilities, food, and common household expenses like TP, cleaning products, etc. Are you splitting the cost? How? Who pays what? When? What’s the monthly due dates and expectations? CHORES?! Who does which chores and when? Dishes, cooking, cleaning, laundry, vacuuming, common spaces, bathrooms, kitchen, etc. REMEMBER it is unrealistic and ASSHOLERY to expect other people to clean up other peoples messes. Do not move in with your BF without discussing things like this. You can agree to things now and adjust later as circumstances change. You can swap chores and responsibilities when it works for both of you. But BEWARE of him wanting you to move on and expecting you to act like “housewife.”