There are so many layers to this situation on both sides and the reality is that we will never really know. What we do know is that porn is a huge issue in your relationship. You are not willing to give it up and find it to be a normal practice. She is never going to stop pestering you about it because it makes her feel bad and she obviously had body image issues, which is probably what the real issue is and not the porn. Y'all are at a stalemate. You won't stop and don't want to stop your porn. She isn't going to stop having an issue with the porn and wanting you to give it up. If neither of you are willing to budge it is time to admit that this relationship is simply not healthy and not meant to be.
There are so many layers to this situation on both sides and the reality is that we will never really know. What we do know is that porn is a huge issue in your relationship. You are not willing to give it up and find it to be a normal practice. She is never going to stop pestering you about it because it makes her feel bad and she obviously had body image issues, which is probably what the real issue is and not the porn. Y'all are at a stalemate. You won't stop and don't want to stop your porn. She isn't going to stop having an issue with the porn and wanting you to give it up. If neither of you are willing to budge it is time to admit that this relationship is simply not healthy and not meant to be.