i mean i totally get that, he told me he’s been doing it for like two years. and i’ve seen pics of it and i’m just not into it. when i tried to express that he brought up how his ex of like 4 years was understanding and i wasn’t??♀️
Her reasons for not wanting sex are irrelevant. She doesn’t want sex she doesn’t need to have sex.
However, there’s no need for you to accept a dead bedroom. Don’t do that to yourself. Nobody is worth the stress. You’re 21 and it’s a fairly new relationship. This will NOT get better.
Check out the destroyed people in r/HLcommunity if you want to see your future.
i mean i totally get that, he told me he’s been doing it for like two years. and i’ve seen pics of it and i’m just not into it. when i tried to express that he brought up how his ex of like 4 years was understanding and i wasn’t??♀️
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Soo….
Your husband was (and probably still is) cheating.
His side chick is pregnant.
He did not tell you that he's cheating and that there's a very-very fruitful outcome that might actually stay in his life.
He was lying about it when you were poking for an honest answer.
I bet, he had no plans on telling you about the affair. Especially, about the preggo situation.
And now, of all times, he's begging.
How can you be sure that he's not lying about anything else?
How can you be sure this won't happen again?
How can you be sure that the AP is going to get an abortion?
Are you ready to live! with a husband who might be paying child support to his affair partner?
Are you ready to have that child in your life should AP desire to keep the babe?
What steps has he already done? Did he change his job? Took some off time?
Re read your post, find the constant variable. I hope your wife has left you by now.
Her reasons for not wanting sex are irrelevant. She doesn’t want sex she doesn’t need to have sex.
However, there’s no need for you to accept a dead bedroom. Don’t do that to yourself. Nobody is worth the stress. You’re 21 and it’s a fairly new relationship. This will NOT get better.
Check out the destroyed people in r/HLcommunity if you want to see your future.