But the fact that they chose your husband over you, do you feel that has to do with sexism or something else?
Even though there were two women that were chosen, their choice to choose your husband over you could be due to sexism. Your boss compared the two of you and chose your husband for a reason, and I would try to find out that reason. Whether it be because he's a better worker, they have a personal relationship, he's been working there longer, or sexism, this is important to find out.
I would definitely talk to an employment lawyer to see if there are grounds for your boss showing discrimination here.
Couples counseling. I know you promised that stuff when you were little but it sounds like the partner you've chosen doesn't want to be a husband. He's 40 and still wanting to sleep around after all.
Don't agree to it if you don't want that. Honestly it would be less painful in the long run to just break it off.
Yeah try posting it , honestly, see for yourself
But the fact that they chose your husband over you, do you feel that has to do with sexism or something else?
Even though there were two women that were chosen, their choice to choose your husband over you could be due to sexism. Your boss compared the two of you and chose your husband for a reason, and I would try to find out that reason. Whether it be because he's a better worker, they have a personal relationship, he's been working there longer, or sexism, this is important to find out.
I would definitely talk to an employment lawyer to see if there are grounds for your boss showing discrimination here.
Couples counseling. I know you promised that stuff when you were little but it sounds like the partner you've chosen doesn't want to be a husband. He's 40 and still wanting to sleep around after all.
Don't agree to it if you don't want that. Honestly it would be less painful in the long run to just break it off.