Close your eyes and imagine yourself a year from now: alone, dealing with a baby by yourself, barely sleeping, not to mention any health concerns the baby may have or the financial burden.
I can appreciate your inner turmoil, but if you make the decision to have this baby, you should do it because you want this person to exist, to have a life, because this baby will be a human being, a person, and they deserve to be born because they are wanted and not because their mother didn't want to potentially, maybe, feel regrets.
Don't have a child out of regret or uncertainty, they don't deserve that, and you don't deserve that either.
Your boyfriend needs to grow up if he genuinely thinks that's a reasonable explanation. If you even considor this as fair justification you also need to grow up.
She could be a bisexual. Are you OK dating her if she is bi? If not, just let her know and save yourself from wasting time and drama.
Close your eyes and imagine yourself a year from now: alone, dealing with a baby by yourself, barely sleeping, not to mention any health concerns the baby may have or the financial burden.
I can appreciate your inner turmoil, but if you make the decision to have this baby, you should do it because you want this person to exist, to have a life, because this baby will be a human being, a person, and they deserve to be born because they are wanted and not because their mother didn't want to potentially, maybe, feel regrets.
Don't have a child out of regret or uncertainty, they don't deserve that, and you don't deserve that either.
Your boyfriend needs to grow up if he genuinely thinks that's a reasonable explanation. If you even considor this as fair justification you also need to grow up.