To try not to force things and to give her time to trust me more. Try to work through things with her mom during that time. She’s already talking about moving out and she’s okay with moving out to where I live and my support system is. She’s gotten to know my friends and isn’t against me not living close to her mother anymore. We plan to move out in around a year or so, as we will have enough money to do so and have a safety net in case one or our jobs go south. Well… we both already have a lot, but it’s invested, so we don’t count that. Then when that time comes, I’ll tell her it’s been a year and a half and nothing’s changed and what she wants to do because I don’t want to be around somebody that is going to constantly look down on our relationship, me, and her decisions.
Nah He wants you as a friend just in case it doesn’t work out.
Did you on-line on campus? I'm only saying this because it was normal to see 18-19 year olds with people 21+ a lot at college.
Silence. This is obviously a useless, unhelpful response.
To try not to force things and to give her time to trust me more. Try to work through things with her mom during that time. She’s already talking about moving out and she’s okay with moving out to where I live and my support system is. She’s gotten to know my friends and isn’t against me not living close to her mother anymore. We plan to move out in around a year or so, as we will have enough money to do so and have a safety net in case one or our jobs go south. Well… we both already have a lot, but it’s invested, so we don’t count that. Then when that time comes, I’ll tell her it’s been a year and a half and nothing’s changed and what she wants to do because I don’t want to be around somebody that is going to constantly look down on our relationship, me, and her decisions.
Yikes