3 thoughts on “Kayliesex shows her charms for you”
I don't think there's such thing as too much unless the person says it is. I personally hit on my bf constantly and I wish he complimented me more. I've even told him I wish he'd sexualize me more ? (like the compliments you say)
Sorry you're going through that OP. Family matters are a very hot topic, and it sorta sucks that your partner is taking something like this very personally. I get it, but it's dismissive on his end to not try and listen.
Here's how my partner and I approached the subject. Before I go into it, part of how we navigated the conversation was talking about how we wanted to talk about it in the first place. Find out what the common ground is which, at least for us is, what to do with a pregnancy. Or maybe in your case which is talking about whether ya'll, together, are ready for a family.
We first scheduled a time to talk about it so both of us could be mentally prepared as best as possible.
The second thing is sometimes it helps to write out what you say or make bullet points (I don't really use this method, but sometimes it can help organize your thoughts).
The other is my partner and I set ground rules. If it started getting heated, we agreed to just do what you did and maybe set a timer or “cool off”.
The other active listening. If someone said something, we would have to repeat what they said such as “I hear that you're saying [x as in summarizing what they said],but it makes me feel like you're saying [y].” It's so important to distinguish what someone is saying vs. how it's making the recipient feel. Hence, the importance of “I” statements.
Reinforcing the use of “I” statements has helped my partner and understand each other.
I don't think there's such thing as too much unless the person says it is. I personally hit on my bf constantly and I wish he complimented me more. I've even told him I wish he'd sexualize me more ? (like the compliments you say)
You're the side piece.
Send a message saying ” Don't contact me ever again. I don't speak to bullshit liars”.
Sorry you're going through that OP. Family matters are a very hot topic, and it sorta sucks that your partner is taking something like this very personally. I get it, but it's dismissive on his end to not try and listen.
Here's how my partner and I approached the subject. Before I go into it, part of how we navigated the conversation was talking about how we wanted to talk about it in the first place. Find out what the common ground is which, at least for us is, what to do with a pregnancy. Or maybe in your case which is talking about whether ya'll, together, are ready for a family.
We first scheduled a time to talk about it so both of us could be mentally prepared as best as possible.
The second thing is sometimes it helps to write out what you say or make bullet points (I don't really use this method, but sometimes it can help organize your thoughts).
The other is my partner and I set ground rules. If it started getting heated, we agreed to just do what you did and maybe set a timer or “cool off”.
The other active listening. If someone said something, we would have to repeat what they said such as “I hear that you're saying [x as in summarizing what they said],but it makes me feel like you're saying [y].” It's so important to distinguish what someone is saying vs. how it's making the recipient feel. Hence, the importance of “I” statements.
Reinforcing the use of “I” statements has helped my partner and understand each other.