DriveCrazy shows her charms for you

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  1. In a healthy parent-child relationship, there's a recalibration that starts to happen around your age, where your parents have to learn to see you as an adult in your own right and not a child who's dependent on them and who they have rights over. Even the best parents can struggle with this! I love my mom, she's fantastic, but we had a conversation after my first year of college where I told her I was flying halfway across the country to live w my boyfriend for the summer. She was like “oh, I'm not sure that's a good idea, I don't want you going that far for that long.” I had to tell her “I understand your concerns, but I need you to understand I'm not asking your permission. I'm telling you what I've decided to do, because I'm an adult and I get to do that for myself now.” And she was shocked and a bit upset for awhile, but it needed to be said. I'm 37 now and she still gets a bit hover-y sometimes (she has anxiety, it's a thing) but all it takes is a gentle reminder of “Mom, I have a mortgage.” for her to remember that I'm a whole-ass adult now and she'll ease off.

    I said all this to say, your mom's behavior is NOT normal nor is it healthy for either of you. You're at a stage where you should be increasingly independent (to the extent you're capable of, ofc) and you and your mom should be realigning your relationship, maybe not into full equals but out of parent/child into adult/adult. Your mom is refusing to allow that. Her level of surveillance is not at all normal for your age. She has kept you overly dependent on her, and that's not doing you any favors. It's time to start setting some boundaries, maybe talking to a family counselor about it to help ease your mom into the idea.

    I'll add one other thing. You've made a point of saying how much your mom does for you, how great of a mom she is. But I want you to hear me when I say, that doesn't counteract the harmful things she's doing. It's not a scale where being controlling is suddenly OK because it's balanced out by being supportive. You can love and appreciate the things she's done for you, without using those to excuse the bad shit she's also done. People and relationships are complex. You can love the good parts and still address the bad parts. It doesn't make you ungrateful or a bad daughter.

    If you take a plant and stick it in a closet, it'll still die no matter how much you water it, because water alone isn't enough to sustain it. It's a naked lesson to come to terms with, when you've got an abusive parent – my father was an alcoholic and abusive, but I have good memories of him too and he did teach me some important life lessons growing up. Those things don't cancel each other out.

  2. O think you should say ok. She may need testing you. First you dinner know if that guy is going to be available or even willing to spend his time with her. Is it's a group dynamic then it should be ok for her to hand someone else that she feels comfortable

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