For real. And like, I get how insecurities sometimes can be overwhelming I'm sure he was struggling with this while single, but damn after getting a gf dudes still gotta be like Nah I could do more/better
I know it has been two years, but ask yourself this… do you really want to date someone who talks this way about you to his friends? At best he is a moron who uses horrible slurs for shock value or to appear cool to his friends. And at worst, he is a horrible, disgusting person. Either way, he has proven he does not respect you.
Run as fast as you can. If he is being pro-active in trying to cheat on you he will succeed one day. Staying will diminish your self worth and you will be forever worrying about whether he is cheating on you. You shouldn't have to even think about looking at his conversations because if it's the right person, you will know that they are not cheating, there will be no doubt there.
I’d ask the cops or one of his family/friends to do a wellness check but afterwards you need to end all contact with this person
At best he’s just trying to hurt you (and it’s working) but at worst he’s trying to manipulate you into a relationship with him which won’t end well
What do I do?
Certainly not marry someone who won't communicate with their fiancée
I forget he literally gets jealous of his dogs!!!
For real. And like, I get how insecurities sometimes can be overwhelming I'm sure he was struggling with this while single, but damn after getting a gf dudes still gotta be like Nah I could do more/better
Just, be happy with what you have. Damn.
I know it has been two years, but ask yourself this… do you really want to date someone who talks this way about you to his friends? At best he is a moron who uses horrible slurs for shock value or to appear cool to his friends. And at worst, he is a horrible, disgusting person. Either way, he has proven he does not respect you.
Is this an insult?
You're both assholes
Run as fast as you can. If he is being pro-active in trying to cheat on you he will succeed one day. Staying will diminish your self worth and you will be forever worrying about whether he is cheating on you. You shouldn't have to even think about looking at his conversations because if it's the right person, you will know that they are not cheating, there will be no doubt there.
I think it's baby mama or birth mom.