In the words of Karen and Georgia “fuck politeness.” This guy makes you uncomfortable and you've let him know in a nice way and he just plays dumb. I'd go to hr because you're not gonna get it through to him.
I'd block him on social media and make it a private account so you have to approve who follows you.
If divorce is an option for you, that seems like the best path forward. It would be one thing if he didn't love you yet but was trying, but that's not the case here. This man does not love you and doesn't seem to have any interest in building love for or with you. He's also 15 years older than you. You deserve someone who is invested in your relationship, which isn't mutually exclusive with an arranged marriage.
Begging for scraps of affection from your partner is incredibly demoralizing and soul-killing over time. You are so young and there's no reason to subject yourself to a lifetime devoid of any sort of care. I'm sorry you're in this kind of pain, you deserve better.
In the words of Karen and Georgia “fuck politeness.” This guy makes you uncomfortable and you've let him know in a nice way and he just plays dumb. I'd go to hr because you're not gonna get it through to him.
I'd block him on social media and make it a private account so you have to approve who follows you.
If divorce is an option for you, that seems like the best path forward. It would be one thing if he didn't love you yet but was trying, but that's not the case here. This man does not love you and doesn't seem to have any interest in building love for or with you. He's also 15 years older than you. You deserve someone who is invested in your relationship, which isn't mutually exclusive with an arranged marriage.
Begging for scraps of affection from your partner is incredibly demoralizing and soul-killing over time. You are so young and there's no reason to subject yourself to a lifetime devoid of any sort of care. I'm sorry you're in this kind of pain, you deserve better.