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Well, Jen thought he went to far too, so don't let him spin this. He behaved a little bit like a creepster and/or emotional vampire. Maybe he tried to console her in a clumsy way and got caught in his own emotions, but if that's the case he should just apologise (to the both of you).
If it’s under consensual terms I’d say no it’s not an issue. My bf and I are pretty physical during sex, I love to be slapped, choked, etc. but on my terms, and I let him know that I’m in the mood for it before he even tries anything. He would never lay a hand on me or ask unless I tell him it’s cool first. We have had big convos over what is allowed, and what is completely off the table. Now if it happened out of no where like your occurrences and you never spoke about it prior, then absolutely no it’s not normal, and he’s just abusing you and passing it off as a a kink.
Ew your boyfriend has been watching way too much porn. If my actual husband did that to me, he’d be getting slapped right back because wtf is that bullshit.
Kinky/fetish and BDSM, are things that you discuss with your partner ahead of time, not just bring on them randomly after two months of dating. Consent is important in committed relationships too, it doesn’t just cease to exist.
I don’t love the fact that you are so nonchalant about this and already defending his behavior. You don’t even know him well enough to trust that he will stop when you want him to. You don’t know him well enough to put your safety in his hands. You sure as hell don’t know him well enough for him to feel so comfortable doing that to you without conversation or consent. Don’t be a doormat in your own life, have higher standards please
Exactly right. There’s no point. Time for you to learn to let go and move on.
Leave her? There is literally no need to do anything or else than that. It is one and best action you need to make and cut contact with her after that.
She’ll probably be able to get another job, but it may not be the same type of position she’s in and if she’s hoping to climb the ranks into a more prestigious role (not sure if she works in a hospital or runs her own practice) being a SAHM will massively derail that. She would also have to keep up with her licensing and depending on how long her absense from medicine is, she may have to undergo a more complicated re-entry process. It sounds like she has a meaningful career and ambitions, and most women who go through years of medical school/interning/etc just aren’t interested in staying at home for years—and why would they be? Medicine is a field where it’s extremely easy to feel “left behind” and it’s difficult to pick up where you left off.
I’m not trying to prevent her from seeing her son
& that's why I said I wasnt comfortable lol
Oh give me a break. We don’t live near each other
lawyer will take care of the billing. this is marriage, not playing house
Bro if she wants to act single let her be single. You are 30 you should know this by now. People who want something need to show it with actions. If she was serious about you she wouldn’t be out acting this way. Come on now king. Don’t waste time on this one
For the most part, yes. But since there’s always alcohol at these places it’s inevitable that someone will be intoxicated and he will be irritated or tense. I enjoy having a glass or two as well but because of this I always worry have to worry that if I get tipsy he’ll feel a little odd and maybe a bit left out
He loves it!
As a bi person with many friends I have the potential to be attracted to, who also have the potential to be attracted to me, the problem isnt having those type of friends, the problem is your lack of boundaries and your inability to make your partner feel secure.
Giving them a key and access to your phone doesnt automatically equate to feeling safe. Your actions towards her and other people does. You making your ex fix a gift for your friend, who had lied to get you to come out with them and invited herself back to your house after drinks? Having dated for that short of a time, and with your assumption that she is the one with a problem and insecurities that actually you dont want to deal with anyway, automatically putting it all on her? I wouldnt feel safe in your ability to be a good partner I could trust to make good desitions on their own either.
Even in the comments, you continue to do it. It went from my ex is insecure, no fault of my own. My friend might actually be a problem, I probably should have seen the signs, but instead of working on myself I'll just not have friends that could be attracted to me. At 34 you seem to have the emotional intelligence of a pet rock.
100% go to the school 2 hours away.
You will learn a lot about yourself, and about him.
If you don't stay together, it will be because you don't want to. It will therefore be a good thing.
If you do stay together, it will be because you want to. It will therefore be a good thing.
I can absolutely guarantee you that 10 years from now if things don't work out with him, you will regret not choosing the school you really wanted. And if things do work out with him, you might still regret not choosing the school you wanted.
All paths point to the school you want.
I also suspected possible ADHD.
Problems with working memory means having a nude time remembering what one believes and why, which makes it hot to articulate beyond a feeling that ‘X matters’ and it’s easy to have one’s mind changed. And things he’s interested in may not hold his interest for long, so he either seems to have 1000 interests or none really. And he’s going to be very sensitive to others’ feelings and judgements, and read into stuff because he often misunderstands minds unlike his own, and be not great at emotional regulation. And he’ll need body doubles to get shit done or to enjoy stuff (so doing a hobby alone might be totally unappealing and he doesn’t understand why you’d want to be alone without him at the disc golf field). And he’d need novelty to enjoy stuff so disc golf is only fun the first time and then just becomes a burdensome amount of work to go do after that. And he’s received lots and lots of negative messages for trying to “be himself” over the years because who he is is weird and fickle.
He’s likely not going to be an intellectual or have opinions on things beyond his special interests. But he’ll likely develop creative habits if given permission and encouragement to. And his special interests really do matter to him.
Are there any ideas or parts of life that seem to consistently light him up? Usually there’s at least one thread you can find to tease out.
His special interest might be you in general and his own trauma rn in particular. The latter is not great. I think trauma therapy made my adhd symptoms much worse. Adhd Coaching, a professional goal and a shared family goal, and some life skills support so I felt more capable was much better.
If he has ADHD, he is likely very loyal and really wants to please you. But you you’ll need strong boundaries and positivity to get through this. CHADD is an org that has support groups. James Ochoa has some articles/books that I think help with emotional storms of adult adhd.
He’s really not just play doh OP but he may need a lot of support to find and remember and embrace who he is…and he’ll have limited bandwidth for caring about topics that don’t help him survive. It takes a lot of spoons to manage a reeling, untreated ADD brain and there’s not a lot left for non essentials.
If your father tries to guilt you, tell him you aren't entertaining it and walk away. If he continues put him in a time out and don't speak to him for a while. Rinse and repeat. At the end of the day, life is too short to make yourself miserable for other people's happiness. Refusing to engage with people who make you feel bad isn't running away, it's self care. Your father is wrong by trying to hold you emotionally hostage to get you to do what HE wants. That's not what a good parent, or person, does.
You already are down that road. People in abusive relationships are more likely to get in more abusive relationships. You need to be in therapy- the signs here are glaring.
You're contradicting yourself. Not wanted to do something and doing it anyways is essentially coercion, which isn't consent.
I don’t like my birthday. I don’t want people hassling me to celebrate it. I don’t want a present because even if it’s something I want it’ll be the wrong one or it’s just tainted.
On my birthday I get to do what I want to do! People who want to force me to have my birthday the way they want to piss me off!
I’m reasonably polite most of the time. I participate in Christmas and other people’s birthdays as required. Im angry just thinking about all the times I was forced to politely sit because other people wanted to impose their birthday preferences on me.
It’s his birthday. You’re not the main character. He’s given you the list. Do as he asks.
He’s probably hoping that they will break up and then you’ll have to take his sisters side and cut the friend out.
If you’ve worked for free all the time I don’t blame him for assuming you will continue to do so. If I were you I would just tell him how you feel. Explain how proud you are over his accomplishments and that you’ve been happy to help out, but that you’re starting to feel like you work for free and you want to be compensated for all the hours you’re putting in. If he’s a normal nice guy he will understand. If not, well.. Then at least you know what kind of person he is.
Fully agree with you. Check his history when he “denied” food for his brother (brother was not allowed in the kitchen without supervision due to past stealing and OP denied to supervise him over breakfast because some petty revenge over a table!). It is just a matter of time until OP goes to AmITheDevil.
That's some shitty behaviour from her part. She is allowed to be upset about whatever, but she should not be just ignoring you like that.
Wait till things cool down, bring it up and make it clear that you are extremely uncomfortable with her behaviour.
She can't expect you to understand her if she doesn't communicate.
Take the L and stop drinking. You 110% deserve this.
You stop catering to her irrational behaviour. It will reduce the fatigue. Set the tone. You remind her that even she doesn’t think her thinking is appropriate.
This is strictly a business relationship.