I have bad news, OP. Your husband is under the spell of the emotional needs that were dormant. Somehow his limbic system or the very irrational part of the emotions short-circuited with the illusion that “Mommy will finally love me thanks to grandchild”, and is so happy that he won't respond to reason or logic.
And I don't know a good recommended course of action, except for hold your ground, tell him to go stay with her for a couple of days and realize for himself.
I'm sorry. I wish you all happiness with your lovely baby, away from the JNMIL.
I have bad news, OP. Your husband is under the spell of the emotional needs that were dormant. Somehow his limbic system or the very irrational part of the emotions short-circuited with the illusion that “Mommy will finally love me thanks to grandchild”, and is so happy that he won't respond to reason or logic.
And I don't know a good recommended course of action, except for hold your ground, tell him to go stay with her for a couple of days and realize for himself.
I'm sorry. I wish you all happiness with your lovely baby, away from the JNMIL.