Oh please, please don't buy a house or in any way entangle your financial or emotional well-being with his. What you have now is not going to change. Are you ok with this being the rest of your life? If not, given that he isn't changing anything, you probably need to accept that you are just incompatible and call it a day.
Make a plan & get out. You deserve so much better. He deserves nothing from you.
It’s flattering, guys like to be pursued and asked out just as much as ladies!
Oh please, please don't buy a house or in any way entangle your financial or emotional well-being with his. What you have now is not going to change. Are you ok with this being the rest of your life? If not, given that he isn't changing anything, you probably need to accept that you are just incompatible and call it a day.